Thank you for sharing your story with us. Sometimes as women we want to meet someone to share our lives with. If you are interested in this man it is important that you know that being divorced is like loss a love one. That caused wounds in a person and that takes time to heal and may be it would be good for him to take a therapy. We do not know the reasons that he decided to divorce his wife. I think you have all the answers and I encourage you do not be afraid to meet other men that you can date and may be you can find in the near future the right match for you. I do not know whether if you believe in God, but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.

Anonymous wrote:Well, I am overweight. He seemed nice at work. But, yeah ..

Sweetie - lose some pounds and gain a better life, okay? This guy, unless you are counting on being the recipient of a large life insurance policy upon his early demise, is totally bottom of the barrel.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. Sometimes as women we want to meet someone to share our lives with. If you are interested in this man it is important that you know that being divorced is like loss a love one. That caused wounds in a person and that takes time to heal and may be it would be good for him to take a therapy. We do not know the reasons that he decided to divorce his wife. I think you have all the answers and I encourage you do not be afraid to meet other men that you can date and may be you can find in the near future the right match for you. I do not know whether if you believe in God, but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.

Uh....,

If this guy cannot even tell you his age, then anything else does not matter.

He sounds like a tool and getting involved with him will be a recipe for disaster.

Guaranteed!

Anonymous wrote:Look at his future (nonexistent) and look at your future. Do you want his future to be a part of yours? Do you like his future?

If not, then move on. Simple as that. That is how I evaluate potential life partners. If they are not on a path to something good, I don't want to join them on that path. It's futile.

Someone, at some point, saw a future with this guy. Didn't work out, I guess.

Look at his future (nonexistent) and look at your future. Do you want his future to be a part of yours? Do you like his future?

If not, then move on. Simple as that. That is how I evaluate potential life partners. If they are not on a path to something good, I don't want to join them on that path. It's futile.

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Anonymous wrote:I've noticed that when people ask if someone is a red flag, the answer is always YES!

Or just wondering if there would be a reason not to rush to judgement.

Oh yes, by all means, ignore the tiny bit of instinct you have left, Op, and get with this obese, divorced, basement-dwelling winner. It's wrong to be judgmental you know.