Anonymous
Post 01/05/2018 07:52     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 19 (he was 23). Got serious almost immediately. Married at 23. Celebrating 20 years of marriage.

I don't think age is a predictor of anything. Rather, I think there are two kinds of people: those who crave monogamy and those who crave freedom. Know who you are, and conduct your life accordingly.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2018 07:51     Subject: Re:How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 20, married at 22. Have been through, the birth of 4 kids, living in 3 countries and 4 states, businesses booms business busts and cancer treatments. Will be our 27th anniversary this April.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2018 07:41     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

I was 21. She was 22. Sr year of college.
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2018 01:35     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

I was 22. He was 30. Now I am 52. Spent my entire adult life with the old guy. Have one child. I feel incredibly lucky: Adore him still! DS tells us to “Cut that out!” Ha!
Anonymous
Post 01/05/2018 01:26     Subject: Re:How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

I was 23 he was 27. I can't believe we have been 20 years together, it does not feel like it. 3 kids and still very happy.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 23:43     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 26, married at 28 and divorced at 48.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 15:56     Subject: Re:How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Anonymous wrote:I met him when I was 17 and moved to college. I think I was 19.5 when we started dating? I didn't consider it serious until after I'd changed colleges, and he moved across the country to live with me. "Oh, I guess this is REALLY serious. I never lived with a boy before."


I'm not trying to be snarky but if you started dating at 19 1/2 and he moved across country to be near you in college, why would your thinking be that you never lived with a boy before? You were a teenager.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 15:04     Subject: Re:How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 18, became a teen parent, married at 22. Still married almost 12 years later. Through working crap jobs while going through college and to grad school, we're still together 15 years later.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 14:56     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 26/30, married at 28/32. Been married three years, no kids yet.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 14:35     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

I was 40, he was 36. We're 9 years and two kids in now.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 13:41     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 28, married at 30, first child at 34. DH is eleven years older than I. Married 26 years .... and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 13:40     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 29. He was 33.

Got married at 31 and 35 but practically 32 and 36 because our wedding was only a month before both of our birthdays.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 13:28     Subject: How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met/got serious at 21 (he was 23.) Married at 24/27.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 13:27     Subject: Re:How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

I met him when I was 17 and moved to college. I think I was 19.5 when we started dating? I didn't consider it serious until after I'd changed colleges, and he moved across the country to live with me. "Oh, I guess this is REALLY serious. I never lived with a boy before."
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2018 13:26     Subject: Re:How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Met at 18, started dating at 25, married at 27. Still married at 38.