Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a huge crush on one of the moms from my daughter's sport. I don't run into her very often but when I do my heart soars and I feel amazing for days after.
It's fun.
Do you just like looking at her or do you flirt with her?
It's a combination. Of course I love looking at her, but I also flirt - mostly eye contact, smiles. She flirts back - I think lol. I try to say hi and strike up conversation whenever I can, but I'm always a wreck and feel like an awkward teenager around her. We're both on the quieter side, but when the teams travel, the parents inevitably end up at the hotel bar, and that helps.Or doesn't help, since I start to feel bold and have to restrain myself.
Funny how someone can make you feel so amazing, even with just a smile.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a huge crush on one of the moms from my daughter's sport. I don't run into her very often but when I do my heart soars and I feel amazing for days after.
It's fun.
Do you just like looking at her or do you flirt with her?
Or doesn't help, since I start to feel bold and have to restrain myself.
Anonymous wrote:My pediatrician openly flirts with me, tells me I'm so pretty, beautiful I could come in anytime, etc. I just smile and blush. It's innocent and makes life fun!
Anonymous wrote:I have a huge crush on one of the moms from my daughter's sport. I don't run into her very often but when I do my heart soars and I feel amazing for days after.
It's fun.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. I just feel ... guilty and bad about thinking about this guy. Most of the time that I see him, he’s with his wife and they seem to have a good relationship. I just feel like a bad person, maybe because I was once cheated on.
Are you super catholic? This is odd. Innocent fantasies are OK.
+1
Smile at him. You may make his day.
My attractive wife and I have a good relationship, and I still like when attractive women smile at me.
Ha yes I am Catholic! But that’s not why I feel this way... he just seems like a good person/husband and I feel guilty fantasizing about him!
Are you objectively hotter than his DW? If so, then smile at him and see how he responds. Chat and see where it goes. Maybe he married his DW when he could only get a 5, and now he’s grown into his looks and with his career in place he could get an 8.
If you’re hotter than his DW, then be that 8 he could never get before. You don’t have to leave your DW. Just because you have a fling doesn’t mean you want to leave, unless this guy is on such an upswing in his career that you’re better off even factoring in the divorce costs.
Anonymous wrote:It is normal. I have a huge crush on my son's soccer coach. I told DH about it and he told me I had bad taste.![]()
Anonymous wrote:It's unlikely that there is a guy who at 18 didn't covet some neighbors wife!