Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:40     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: Before the birth of our second child I knew I planned to divorce her so after the birth I convinced her to get her tubes tied. She won’t be giving another man children.


Tubals can sometimes be reversed and there are other ways that medicine could help her to conceive....so don't be so sure that she's done having babies.


+1

My aunt had hers reversed after her son died from a rare disease and had another child.

Also surrogacy.

Btw why do you care if she gives another man kids if you are divorced?
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:40     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
As a teenager I smushed a giant piece of my chewed up bubble gum into the center-parted 90s hair of a kid who had harassed me throughout a showing of Forrest Gump, told him to enjoy his new haircut, and walked away.

I'm not really a vengeful person but it felt awesome at the time and I often wish I could do something similar to annoying people in movie theaters now. I thought someone might appreciate something other than an anecdote about grown adults trying to exact revenge on the parents of their children.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:37     Subject: Re:Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.


Wow, you’re bitter. Move on and grow up
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:34     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When I left him, I made sure to tell some neighborhood moms she was his mistress. We all live in the same neighborhood and our kids will go to the same elementary school. I wasn't going to let them pretend their relationship started after I left. So now the whole neighborhood knows she is a lying slut and that he is a cheating jerk. There were half a dozen birthday parties she didn't get invited to this year. Whoops.


I'm sure you're lying about that. Nobody would not invite a kid to a party because of a parents affair.

Try again. Keep trying to convince yourself that your bitterness is actually hurting someone other than yourself.

PP did not specifically say these were parties for kids.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:33     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When I left him, I made sure to tell some neighborhood moms she was his mistress. We all live in the same neighborhood and our kids will go to the same elementary school. I wasn't going to let them pretend their relationship started after I left. So now the whole neighborhood knows she is a lying slut and that he is a cheating jerk. There were half a dozen birthday parties she didn't get invited to this year. Whoops.


I'm sure you're lying about that. Nobody would not invite a kid to a party because of a parents affair.

Try again. Keep trying to convince yourself that your bitterness is actually hurting someone other than yourself.


NP. It depends on how well you know the person. If this was all I knew about someone I wouldn't invite them or seek out a relationship with them. But maybe it would be different if we already had an established relationship.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:32     Subject: Re:Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:I took the high ground and never said a bad thing about him to our children and he went the other way. It didn't take long for them to not want to spend time with him because he was always mean and saying bad things about me. Eventually a judge reduced his visitation rights.

+1000 Good job.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:31     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:And please don't say "living my best life." YES I know that is the best, but its not applicable to me right now. Tell me the worst sh*t you did to an ex. Whether it was immediately after a break up or years later. And if not you, someone you knew who did it.


Best revenge on crazy "progressives" -- seeing Trump elected.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:29     Subject: Re:Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.


And every single day this guy smiles at night because he gets to sleep with the love of his life while his bitter ex wastes her life away in a stew of anger. Congrats!


I agree that PP's revenge is over the top. However, what is with people on here assuming every remarriage is with "the love of his/her life." Like this is the same man that married his psycho ex. Is he suddenly a great judge of character? Don't most second marriages have almost a 70% divorce rate?
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:23     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
I had an boyfriend who cheated on me instead of just breaking up with me. I found out, we broke up and he started dating the woman with whom he'd cheated.

I stayed friends with one of his friends and one night we got drunk and kissed a bit. Afterward we emailed about it and were both like, "yeah, we probably shouldn't have done that. oh well." The ex actually hacked into his email, emailed us both and said "you two are disgusting." I guess he thought we did more than we did. I thought that was pretty rich given that he'd slept with another girl - who I knew - while we were dating.

I did like that he was pissed and jealous. He was insecure so I figure that was pretty good revenge, even though it was unintentional. Left to my own devices, he would never have found out about the kissing.
TwistdMike
Post 11/28/2017 10:23     Subject: Re:Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:

1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.

Revenge served warm:

2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!

Revenge served cold:

3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.


Q: Why is divorce so expensive?
A: Because it's worth it.

Q: What do you call a woman who has lost 90% of her intelligence?
A: Divorced

Twenty Years Ago A woman awoke during the night to find that her husband was not in bed. She put on her robe and went downstairs. He was sitting at the kitchen table with a cup of coffee in front of him. He appeared to be in deep thought, just staring at the wall. She saw him wipe a tear from his eye and take a sip of his coffee. "What's the matter dear? Why are you down here at this time of night?" she asked. "Do you remember twenty years ago when we were dating and you were only 16?" he asked. "Yes, I do," she replied. "Do you remember when your father caught us in the back seat of my car making out?" "Yes, I remember." "Do you remember when he shoved that shotgun in my face and said, 'Either you marry my daughter or spend twenty years in jail?'" "Yes, I do," she said. He wiped another tear from his cheek and said, "You know...I would have gotten out today."

source: http://www.jokes4us.com/dirtyjokes/divorcejokes.html

Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:17     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote: Before the birth of our second child I knew I planned to divorce her so after the birth I convinced her to get her tubes tied. She won’t be giving another man children.


Tubals can sometimes be reversed and there are other ways that medicine could help her to conceive....so don't be so sure that she's done having babies.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:16     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When I left him, I made sure to tell some neighborhood moms she was his mistress. We all live in the same neighborhood and our kids will go to the same elementary school. I wasn't going to let them pretend their relationship started after I left. So now the whole neighborhood knows she is a lying slut and that he is a cheating jerk. There were half a dozen birthday parties she didn't get invited to this year. Whoops.


I'm sure you're lying about that. Nobody would not invite a kid to a party because of a parents affair.

Try again. Keep trying to convince yourself that your bitterness is actually hurting someone other than yourself.


Okay, so it was at least 4. Not lying about it. Yes, when the neighborhood is so interconnected and everyone knows everyone, yes, people don't invite others to parties for this reason. It is about screwing being nice to the mom who was sleeping with a friend's husband. My friends see them out together with our kids and they get disgusted.
.

Are you talking about ... kids’ birthday parties? As in, some poor kids whose lives have already been upended through no fault of their own didn’t get invited to their friends’ Birthday parties? And this is supposed to be a punishment for the adults who don’t like these things anyway? I hope I’m misunderstanding!


The friends of the kids are absolutely invited to their birthday parties. But sometimes you invite non-friends so the parents don't feel like their kid was left out. These kids aren't friends with his AP's DD. A few people didn't care if she and my STBX felt left out. Her kid has plenty of other parties to go to. But it is noticible she isn't getting the pity invites.


I'm the other woman who married a guy who was married to an absolute psycho.

I couldn't care less about what parties I'm invited to, just so you know. But if you want to keep obsessing about what I am feeling go right ahead.



You realize that this isn't the really psycho PP, right? This is someone who just told her friends that her DH had cheated and was living with the OW. Her giving that information is just a natural consequence to them of their immorality. Do the crime, do the time. Own your sh!t. Don't pretend that the betrayed wife is somehow deranged for not keeping your little secret.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:15     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Before the birth of our second child I knew I planned to divorce her so after the birth I convinced her to get her tubes tied. She won’t be giving another man children.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:01     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:This was pretty childish but when I was younger I signed up an ex's .edu account for every porn and spam website I could find.


This is pretty funny.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2017 10:01     Subject: Best revenge you ever got on someone?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When I left him, I made sure to tell some neighborhood moms she was his mistress. We all live in the same neighborhood and our kids will go to the same elementary school. I wasn't going to let them pretend their relationship started after I left. So now the whole neighborhood knows she is a lying slut and that he is a cheating jerk. There were half a dozen birthday parties she didn't get invited to this year. Whoops.


I'm sure you're lying about that. Nobody would not invite a kid to a party because of a parents affair.

Try again. Keep trying to convince yourself that your bitterness is actually hurting someone other than yourself.


Okay, so it was at least 4. Not lying about it. Yes, when the neighborhood is so interconnected and everyone knows everyone, yes, people don't invite others to parties for this reason. It is about screwing being nice to the mom who was sleeping with a friend's husband. My friends see them out together with our kids and they get disgusted.
.

Are you talking about ... kids’ birthday parties? As in, some poor kids whose lives have already been upended through no fault of their own didn’t get invited to their friends’ Birthday parties? And this is supposed to be a punishment for the adults who don’t like these things anyway? I hope I’m misunderstanding!


The friends of the kids are absolutely invited to their birthday parties. But sometimes you invite non-friends so the parents don't feel like their kid was left out. These kids aren't friends with his AP's DD. A few people didn't care if she and my STBX felt left out. Her kid has plenty of other parties to go to. But it is noticible she isn't getting the pity invites.


I'm the other woman who married a guy who was married to an absolute psycho.

I couldn't care less about what parties I'm invited to, just so you know. But if you want to keep obsessing about what I am feeling go right ahead.