I really respect your response, and it resonates with me. I am an objectively handsome, fit man. But I'm quite short. Many (actually most) women find me unattractive as a result of my height. I have other qualities, and some people see value in those qualities. Others don't. While ugly/pretty/handsome is somewhat more subjective than height, there are still some people who are simply ugly. Kudos to you for being able to accept yourself and appreciate what you have to offer. The original poster needs to do the same.

I don't get why many women are hung up on height. You sound great! I have never judged a man on his height-it's a non-issue to me. I'm 5'6"-my DH is only an inch taller than I am and he's hot as hell. I dated a guy who was an inch or two shorter than me and I was extremely physically attracted to him-we weren't compatible in other ways, but the sex was great. Ladies-keep an open mind about the height thing. I think women are brainwashed to think tall=attractive. Time to let that one go-you're missing out on some great men.

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I won't go so far as to call him a troll, as I think he is funny and probably has a cool personality which is why women are attracted to him, but this man is aged and that is not wine he's serving up in that picture.

Are you joking? Patton Oswalt is one of the most successful comedians/actors in his field, he's loaded, and he's funny. I bet he's got women lined up on their knees ready to blow him.

Which, again, is proof that men age like wine while women age like milk.

Uhhh ... you sure do seem to like that phrasing.

Keep using it. It's a great look for you!

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The point, which seems to have whooshed right over your pretty little head, is that Patton's appeal has nothing to do with how he is aging because he is not very physically attractive. There are other things about him, which you mentioned, that make him a catch, not his looks.

His wallet keeps getting fatter as he ages, thus boosting his sex appeal to women as he ages. Try to keep up.

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I won't go so far as to call him a troll, as I think he is funny and probably has a cool personality which is why women are attracted to him, but this man is aged and that is not wine he's serving up in that picture.

Are you joking? Patton Oswalt is one of the most successful comedians/actors in his field, he's loaded, and he's funny. I bet he's got women lined up on their knees ready to blow him.

Which, again, is proof that men age like wine while women age like milk.

The point, which seems to have whooshed right over your pretty little head, is that Patton's appeal has nothing to do with how he is aging because he is not very physically attractive. There are other things about him, which you mentioned, that make him a catch, not his looks.

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Anonymous wrote:Work out. Shape your body. Men will respond accordingly.

I'm a PP. I'm not going to do that just so men will respond. I don't care if men respond. I have my own life, and I would not give it up even if some man did respond. I'm not interested in marriage or kids, I have my own money and houses, and if I meet a man, fine. If I don't, also fine.

A good lesson here gentleman. For her, a relationship with a man is about "money and houses".

You don't read very well.

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I'm a PP. I'm not going to do that just so men will respond. I don't care if men respond. I have my own life, and I would not give it up even if some man did respond. I'm not interested in marriage or kids, I have my own money and houses, and if I meet a man, fine. If I don't, also fine.

Then stop whining

Not whining at all. You must have me confused with someone else.

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I'm a PP. I'm not going to do that just so men will respond. I don't care if men respond. I have my own life, and I would not give it up even if some man did respond. I'm not interested in marriage or kids, I have my own money and houses, and if I meet a man, fine. If I don't, also fine.

Then stop whining

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I won't go so far as to call him a troll, as I think he is funny and probably has a cool personality which is why women are attracted to him, but this man is aged and that is not wine he's serving up in that picture.

Are you joking? Patton Oswalt is one of the most successful comedians/actors in his field, he's loaded, and he's funny. I bet he's got women lined up on their knees ready to blow him.

Which, again, is proof that men age like wine while women age like milk.