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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was dating, I met an alarming number of guys who preferred porn over a real woman. My female friends have experienced this, too. I find that troubling.

Why would you find that alarming? Guys want sex in a relationship, females want other things. Just read through this forum, you will see how many women treat sex as a reward/punishment for the guy.

Women don't want sex ?

and what's so important about sex anyway? There's far far more to life you know.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was dating, I met an alarming number of guys who preferred porn over a real woman. My female friends have experienced this, too. I find that troubling.

Why would you find that alarming? Guys want sex in a relationship, females want other things. Just read through this forum, you will see how many women treat sex as a reward/punishment for the guy.

Women don't want sex ?

Generally speaking, women want lovemaking.

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Anonymous wrote:I do not watch any of that stuff but I do know most of them are paid actors.

Does being paid mean it's okay? Can I knock out a homeless man's teeth if I pay him $100 beforehand?

It is sick but they are consenting adults.

It is well-established that boundaries are routinely crossed once filming has begun. The "actors" don't stop when a woman says no, screams in pain, starts crying. If you're a woman alone in a room full of men who's objective it is to exploit you, the five hundred dollars you're making won't save you, nor does it protect you from these men's predatory natures.

Oh, honey. I promise you that you've never actually seen a real film involving abuse.

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Anonymous wrote:A lot of that stuff is fake including the sex.

You are a disgusting pig who doesn't want to acknowledge the reality of women's abuse. You want to sweep it under the rug. Too bad. It's real, and we're not going to hide it anymore.

DP

And you are too obtuse to understand that these are actors, acting?

Do you understand that murders in movies aren't really murdering people? It's a movie. It's fake.

After the porno scene is shot, they clean up, get dressed, help the crew pack up the lights and gear, and then they all probably go to Chipotle or get drinks.

OP probably thought Two Girls, One Cup was real, too.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A lot of that stuff is fake including the sex.

You are a disgusting pig who doesn't want to acknowledge the reality of women's abuse. You want to sweep it under the rug. Too bad. It's real, and we're not going to hide it anymore.

DP

And you are too obtuse to understand that these are actors, acting?

Do you understand that murders in movies aren't really murdering people? It's a movie. It's fake.

After the porno scene is shot, they clean up, get dressed, help the crew pack up the lights and gear, and then they all probably go to Chipotle or get drinks.

You didn't read the article, did you?

Please, for the love of God, READ ARTICLES before commenting. My Lord. How embarrassing to weigh in so authoritatively and you're just 1000% incorrect.

I did, and if the author really believes those women aren't professional porn actresses who know EXACTLY what they're doing, then she's operating a few bricks short of a full load.

You think she's acting when she cries out in pain? Wow. You must not have read very much about the porn industry. Time for you to educate yourself before spouting off, sparky.

I know she's an actress. Acting. Stop implying she was raped or that her participation in acting wasn't done without her clear, informed consent.

In my experience, when it comes to sex, there's a huge difference between men who don't watch porn and those who do, or grew up watching it. Men who don't are way more attentive to their partner's needs and are willing to do things women like, such as foreplay, kissing, touching, massage, etc. For men who watch porn it's all about the dick- they just want to stick it in as quickly as possible, and even after you tell them you aren't ready yet, they still try to cram it in. Then they are baffled when their partner doesn't O or thinks something is wrong with them.

My older male friends tell me it is shaping women's sexuality as well- the women they are sleeping with who are in their 20's want to be slapped, choked, and degraded, and don't understand why that isn't normal.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A lot of that stuff is fake including the sex.

You are a disgusting pig who doesn't want to acknowledge the reality of women's abuse. You want to sweep it under the rug. Too bad. It's real, and we're not going to hide it anymore.

DP

And you are too obtuse to understand that these are actors, acting?

Do you understand that murders in movies aren't really murdering people? It's a movie. It's fake.

After the porno scene is shot, they clean up, get dressed, help the crew pack up the lights and gear, and then they all probably go to Chipotle or get drinks.

You didn't read the article, did you?

Please, for the love of God, READ ARTICLES before commenting. My Lord. How embarrassing to weigh in so authoritatively and you're just 1000% incorrect.

I did, and if the author really believes those women aren't professional porn actresses who know EXACTLY what they're doing, then she's operating a few bricks short of a full load.

You think she's acting when she cries out in pain? Wow. You must not have read very much about the porn industry. Time for you to educate yourself before spouting off, sparky.

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Anonymous wrote:These women are also making bad choices.

indeed. and they are making those bad choices of their own volition. can't legislate against being stupid (though I wish we could)

Making $2,000-$4,000 for a half-day shoot is a bad choice?

So an otherwise unskilled young woman, with minimal training in acting, can choose to work 5 times per month, and earn $180,000 a year, and if she has the finincial discipline to do it, manage a career that can span up to a decade or longer, is making a bad choice?


I guess you'd rather see her go to law school and accumulate $300k in student debt, because we don't already have an over abundance of lawyers already? Or maybe get a masters in feminist studies and work........ well, nowhere...... than make a living doing porn.

Ok thanks. No.

Yes, when that one scene will follow her around for life and preclude her from many other forms of work- it is a bad choice.

Average time spent in the porn industry: 4 months. With costs including all the maintenance a porn actress goes through to be "ready for camera", most of the actresses end up making chin-up change from their short time in the industry. And yet now they have, again, videos that will follow them around for life.

To make this out as some kind of wonderful career prospect is both laughable and a blatant lie as proven by statistics.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:These women are also making bad choices.

indeed. and they are making those bad choices of their own volition. can't legislate against being stupid (though I wish we could)

Making $2,000-$4,000 for a half-day shoot is a bad choice?

So an otherwise unskilled young woman, with minimal training in acting, can choose to work 5 times per month, and earn $180,000 a year, and if she has the finincial discipline to do it, manage a career that can span up to a decade or longer, is making a bad choice?


I guess you'd rather see her go to law school and accumulate $300k in student debt, because we don't already have an over abundance of lawyers already? Or maybe get a masters in feminist studies and work........ well, nowhere...... than make a living doing porn.

Ok thanks. No.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A lot of that stuff is fake including the sex.

You are a disgusting pig who doesn't want to acknowledge the reality of women's abuse. You want to sweep it under the rug. Too bad. It's real, and we're not going to hide it anymore.

DP

And you are too obtuse to understand that these are actors, acting?

Do you understand that murders in movies aren't really murdering people? It's a movie. It's fake.

After the porno scene is shot, they clean up, get dressed, help the crew pack up the lights and gear, and then they all probably go to Chipotle or get drinks.

You didn't read the article, did you?

Please, for the love of God, READ ARTICLES before commenting. My Lord. How embarrassing to weigh in so authoritatively and you're just 1000% incorrect.

I did, and if the author really believes those women aren't professional porn actresses who know EXACTLY what they're doing, then she's operating a few bricks short of a full load.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not watch any of that stuff but I do know most of them are paid actors.

Does being paid mean it's okay? Can I knock out a homeless man's teeth if I pay him $100 beforehand?

It is sick but they are consenting adults.

So that's okay then, to knock a homeless man's teeth out provided he "consents" beforehand? "Consent" is the golden ticket to getting to do all kinds of heinous stuff to a person, even if you have to pay them lots of money and coerce them beforehand?

Anonymous wrote:I think about the increased prevalence of violent and degrading acts in porn, and think about the young guys (and young girls) watching it and normalizing it.

I feel sick when I see how common it's become to slap the woman, pull her hair, spit on her, and make her gag. This was considered insanely degrading and misogynist in my youth, and we would have been up and out the door if a guy did that. (I'm not talking about relationships based on s&m.)

It's horrifying. For the young women involved who have probably only experienced "normal sex" up until that point; and for the young men and women who's ideas of sex are shaped by watching the most violent and degrading stuff imaginable

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not watch any of that stuff but I do know most of them are paid actors.

Does being paid mean it's okay? Can I knock out a homeless man's teeth if I pay him $100 beforehand?

It is sick but they are consenting adults.

It is well-established that boundaries are routinely crossed once filming has begun. The "actors" don't stop when a woman says no, screams in pain, starts crying. If you're a woman alone in a room full of men who's objective it is to exploit you, the five hundred dollars you're making won't save you, nor does it protect you from these men's predatory natures.

+1000

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I have friends who do medical lots of studies, including experiemental drugs, or sell body parts, for money. This all seems much safer, honestly.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not watch any of that stuff but I do know most of them are paid actors.

Does being paid mean it's okay? Can I knock out a homeless man's teeth if I pay him $100 beforehand?

It is sick but they are consenting adults.

It is well-established that boundaries are routinely crossed once filming has begun. The "actors" don't stop when a woman says no, screams in pain, starts crying. If you're a woman alone in a room full of men who's objective it is to exploit you, the five hundred dollars you're making won't save you, nor does it protect you from these men's predatory natures.

+1000

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was dating, I met an alarming number of guys who preferred porn over a real woman. My female friends have experienced this, too. I find that troubling.

Why would you find that alarming? Guys want sex in a relationship, females want other things. Just read through this forum, you will see how many women treat sex as a reward/punishment for the guy.

Women don't want sex ?