Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 20:32     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:This is one of the odder posts I have seen. Please update ok Wednesday, post-COB.


yeppers!
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 19:45     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
This is one of the odder posts I have seen. Please update ok Wednesday, post-COB.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 19:43     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:We've had our ups and downs as of recently and I've been thinking: do I need to be married to him? does he want to be married to me? would we be better off alone? So, when we were having coffee, I asked him if we would be better off divorced. He said he would let me know on Wednesday evening. Also, I've speculated that he's gay and will come out after we divorce.


Ew, dump him. What a loser he sounds like. Move on OP- let him be free and live your life. Life is too short to put up with this weirdo
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 19:43     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:When I got divorced, the decision was made when I asked him, “do you still want to be married to me?” Anything other than an immediate “yes” is a “no.”


+1
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 19:40     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
We've had our ups and downs as of recently and I've been thinking: do I need to be married to him? does he want to be married to me? would we be better off alone? So, when we were having coffee, I asked him if we would be better off divorced. He said he would let me know on Wednesday evening. Also, I've speculated that he's gay and will come out after we divorce.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 19:12     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
OP, what did he mean by Wednesday COB? He will call you from the office to let you know?
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 18:14     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
OP - we need more context on the background of this conversation and what she been going on the last year or so.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 18:14     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
He's probably waiting to hear back from the other woman. Sorry OP
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 18:05     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
She doesn't provide details so that the DCUM women can tell her how it is all his fault, duh!
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 17:57     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:I don't have a mental disorder.


A second opinion other than yourself is warranted
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 17:56     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:Troll. Not giving any additional info, just a bored insane person.


What else would you like to know?

OP here, AMA.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 17:54     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
I don't have a mental disorder.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 11:15     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So you asked him this morning if he wanted to remain married, and he said he would let you know by Wednesday?


yeppers, we were having our morning coffee at the dining room table and I asked him. he said he would let me know by Wednesday COB.


You just asked him out of the blue? If my husband asked me something so non-sequitur, I would probably give him a weird answer too.

Are you always this attention seeking?



+1 if that was really OP responding she has some issues.

Your husband is probably weighing his options. Can he tolerate living with your mental disorder until the kids are in college or at least old enough to voice who they want to live with to the court?

Or is it better to divorce now and try for sole custody?
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 11:11     Subject: Re:Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He's planning to talk to a few lawyers on Monday and Tuesday.


+1. And get his finances in order. My guess is if you asked the question, you probably know the answer.


Or maybe he just needs a few days to decide if he really wants to stay with the nagging bitch who replaced the sweet girl he met in college and if he wants to go without a BJ and with sex only quarterly for the rest of his life.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2017 11:05     Subject: Husband says he will have an answer Wednesday as to whether or not he wants to remain married
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He needs to give his coworker time to leave her husband.


mmm, I bet she's hot and willing to do "anything".


By anything do you mean....have sex?