Give OP's DH some credit. Heres a grandfather spending a lot of money on a vacation house and he has an active libido. We are about ten years away from being in the same situation and I hope my DH makes the same request. I might well have the same reaction as OP but I would certainly let him know how much I appreciate the thought.

50 weeks of good sex and he pouts about 2 weeks. What a douche.

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Anonymous wrote:Question OP - is the bed on a carpeted floor? Beach houses often have wooden floors which can create a lot of noise. My DH's parents had a beach house and we slept in a bedroom, right above the master, which had twin beds and a wooden floor. We actually conceived two of our children in that situation. Silent but fruitful. We still joke about it but our kids were shocked when they got old enough to figure it out.

Huh?

How did they figure it out, unless you spent months at that house?

Summer house has been in the family something like 50 years. We always visit at the 4th of July. Kids both born around April 1. Do the math!

Unless you spend a month there... math does not explain it.

Both children were born approx nine months after the 4th of July. While it's possible they weren't conceived the week we were there it's part of family lore!

Obviously it is lore ... lore you created, not lore your kids crested.

It's not cute .. it's creepy.

Dude. For the life of me I cannot figure out why you or combination of others zeroed in on this poster's relatively innocuous, non-confrontational, and relatively cute story, and are hammering her like you're the prosecution. Seriously. What did she say that was all offensive that she need to defend herself and explain herself over and over again here? It's cute to them. You don't get to say. Jesus Christ some of your miserable Fux.

+1 I thought it was a pretty cute story too. It's amazing how many kids are conceived when their parents are on vacation.

+2. It's a fun story. Like how we privately call our third "our Italian souvenir."

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Anonymous wrote:Question OP - is the bed on a carpeted floor? Beach houses often have wooden floors which can create a lot of noise. My DH's parents had a beach house and we slept in a bedroom, right above the master, which had twin beds and a wooden floor. We actually conceived two of our children in that situation. Silent but fruitful. We still joke about it but our kids were shocked when they got old enough to figure it out.

Huh?

How did they figure it out, unless you spent months at that house?

Summer house has been in the family something like 50 years. We always visit at the 4th of July. Kids both born around April 1. Do the math!

Unless you spend a month there... math does not explain it.

Both children were born approx nine months after the 4th of July. While it's possible they weren't conceived the week we were there it's part of family lore!

Obviously it is lore ... lore you created, not lore your kids crested.

It's not cute .. it's creepy.

Dude. For the life of me I cannot figure out why you or combination of others zeroed in on this poster's relatively innocuous, non-confrontational, and relatively cute story, and are hammering her like you're the prosecution. Seriously. What did she say that was all offensive that she need to defend herself and explain herself over and over again here? It's cute to them. You don't get to say. Jesus Christ some of your miserable Fux.

+1 I thought it was a pretty cute story too. It's amazing how many kids are conceived when their parents are on vacation.

OP: He'll survive but honestly, you could probably get away with doing something for him in less time than it took to write this post.

My wife is rarely comfortable in that scenario either although I had an ex that DID NOT CARE. We used to have family get togethers at her uncles house and we'd have to sleep in the living room on an air mattress with access only to a hallway restroom. If I said no, she'd go downtown and then get on top - not stealthily either - sitting straight up. We popped her uncles air mattress on two different trips and had to dodge questions about it. Plus, we didn't even have a door. I was always alittle nervous about that.

In the time it took OP to think about writing this post, write this post and reply, she could have had sex.

Your kids don't care and your grandkids don't care.

As long as you're not making it sound like the Jungle Book you're good.

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Anonymous wrote:Tell the kids you are going on a day trip and get a room if your H is going to torture you with emotional abuse and give him some sympathy sex... sound fun. NOT.

No I would not do it in the house with a bunch of people. You are empty nesters, this is literally never an issue any more except maybe 2-4 times a year.

You H is an a$$hat.

This.

A DH is trying to have sex with his a wife....what is wrong with that?

Nothing. but the tantrum and guilt-tripping is off putting. He's acting like a child.

A$$hat? Tantrum? Really? What thread are you reading?
He is just communicating his completely normal and legitimate relationship needs, to a wife who sounds ridiculously self conscience.
OP, hate to break this to you but the entire world (nor even your household) is NOT wondering:

"gee what's OP up to right now... haven't seen OP in over 20 minutes, I am getting worried about her...."

Do you have similar troubles taking a poop with a house full of people? What if one of them notices your absence, then connects the dots to an in-use bathroom, correctly deducing that YOU are in there with your panties down taking a .... gulp.... big smelly poop? Dear god how could you ever look them in the eye again after such embarrassment?


How hard is it to just lock the bedroom door and turn on some music for crying out loud!!

Can we pause right here for a moment and just appreciate the very healthy sex life that OP and her DH still have together?

Relationship goals.

Just give him a bj and be done with it, OP.

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Anonymous wrote:Tell the kids you are going on a day trip and get a room if your H is going to torture you with emotional abuse and give him some sympathy sex... sound fun. NOT.

No I would not do it in the house with a bunch of people. You are empty nesters, this is literally never an issue any more except maybe 2-4 times a year.

You H is an a$$hat.

This.

A DH is trying to have sex with his a wife....what is wrong with that?

Nothing. but the tantrum and guilt-tripping is off putting. He's acting like a child.

Do it on the floor., use duct tape if necessary.

I'd rent my own separate guest house next time but you do you.

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Anonymous wrote:Just give him a BJ.

Yea, do your duty... NO O For You!

Why not? I have on more than one occasion given such to my wife without one for me.

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Anonymous wrote:Tell the kids you are going on a day trip and get a room if your H is going to torture you with emotional abuse and give him some sympathy sex... sound fun. NOT.

No I would not do it in the house with a bunch of people. You are empty nesters, this is literally never an issue any more except maybe 2-4 times a year.

You H is an a$$hat.

This.

A DH is trying to have sex with his a wife....what is wrong with that?

I'm with the pp here. He wants to have sex, he loves you, he finds you sexy. Go out on a date and find some sexy time in the shower then go back to being a grandma.

Anonymous wrote:Just give him a BJ.

Yea, do your duty... NO O For You!