Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here. He called me and I realize I completely overreacted. I don't need help anymore.
To pp - I never said I didn't like him. I said the sex wasn't that great but not bad.
He's going to disappear on you at some point. Men that want you to stick around don't just not text you back after sex...beware
Op here. He said he lost his phone Saturday morning ( on his way to run a 5k) and didn't get it a replacement until today because he was in a we didn't yesterday ( already knew about it). He called me once he got home from getting his new phone. He apologized for making me worry, etc., and we set up another date for this week. I am going to be cautious but still want to give him a chance because I do like him.
Stupid iphone typo. He was in a wedding yesterday after his 5k.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's just as likely that he felt the same lack of chemistry you described in your OP and decided there wasn't long-term potential. It may have nothing to do with timing and everything to do with the crappy sex.
+1. "Good but not great sex"? Why are you pining that you lost this? Good but not great sex on the third date means you should probably move on.
Anonymous wrote:Is sex ever great, the first time with a new partner?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My H didn't make a move sexually until we had been seeing each other for about two weeks. I thought maybe he was gay. Turned out he wasn't.
Fast forward through our marriage, turns out he had pretty low testosterone/sex drive. It was fine for like five years but then not so great.
Some might think this is normal and/or he was getting some on the side, but the truth is he def has low drive and I don't so we ended up divorced. His low drive situation continued long after our divorce.
That's sad. I'm sorry.
Anonymous wrote:My H didn't make a move sexually until we had been seeing each other for about two weeks. I thought maybe he was gay. Turned out he wasn't.
Fast forward through our marriage, turns out he had pretty low testosterone/sex drive. It was fine for like five years but then not so great.
Some might think this is normal and/or he was getting some on the side, but the truth is he def has low drive and I don't so we ended up divorced. His low drive situation continued long after our divorce.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sorry OP but you know what? He probably was not a keeper long term anyway. If there is a real connection there are no Rules. I slept with my husband the night we met.
Third date. Married at the one year mark.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's weird he graded you like that, I wouldn't like a man judging my technique like that.[/quote
Giving a comment is not grading. I don't he gave op a number rating.
He compared her to other women. Gross.
Anonymous wrote:I think it's just as likely that he felt the same lack of chemistry you described in your OP and decided there wasn't long-term potential. It may have nothing to do with timing and everything to do with the crappy sex.
Anonymous wrote:Op here. He called me and I realize I completely overreacted. I don't need help anymore.
To pp - I never said I didn't like him. I said the sex wasn't that great but not bad.