Anonymous wrote:Prayer lady, crawl back under your rock. If prayer works for you, why are you even on a relationship board??

Thank you for your concern for others. I will continue to pray and have God work His miracles in the lives of others as He has proved so many times.

Anonymous wrote:Op here, I don't care about living close, I'd love it. But 15 mins and no further is kind of ridiculous. Meanwhile I'll be 45 mins from my family for now and a 4 hr flight away once my parents move to the islands.

The answer is simple. Do not marry him unless and until you reach a compromise that makes you both happy. Read carefully the post from the PP who recommended counseling and detailed the issues. You are making a huge mistake if you marry him without taking these steps. You'll be miserable and divorced in 5 years.