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Anonymous wrote:We rarely talk about details of sex. More like sexual frequency, how often, which usually is someone complaining their husband wants it too much or what techniques we use to avoid nightly sex. I count myself fortunate my DH doesn't push for it more than 1x per week.

SAD!

Not sad, so much as reality. This is a parenting website, most mom's of young kids want nothing to do with sex. I am fairly convinced these so-called women who write in about threesomes, claiming to be high-drive, etc. are either men pretending to be women, or wives in the newlywed phase.

There is a reason the world's oldest profession is still thriving, don't you think?

Male so I don't count, but a friend's DW told me her husband doesn't have any drive

Anonymous wrote:We rarely talk about details of sex. More like sexual frequency, how often, which usually is someone complaining their husband wants it too much or what techniques we use to avoid nightly sex. I count myself fortunate my DH doesn't push for it more than 1x per week.

lol same here. It ranges from making him a few stiff drinks so he gets tired to planning girls night twice a week. Coming in after she knows he's asleep. Oh and the big one. Letting little Susie and Bobby sleep in their bed various nights.

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Anonymous wrote:Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.

This is why so many marriages are lousy. To wish that your husband gets ED is a sorry statement. No wonder so many men have affairs.

That's one way to look at it. Another is the guy that makes sex the woman's job. Doesn't care if she is busy or isn't receptive. Puts it as #1 in a marriage. Before the kids and communicating. Maybe he doesn't do jack in the marriage either...If he's cheated often the woman doesn't want much sex from him since the trust is gone. I've heard it all. Yes many women would be ok with ED. I remember one on here said she prayed for it, and finally happened. lol

Anonymous wrote:We rarely talk about details of sex. More like sexual frequency, how often, which usually is someone complaining their husband wants it too much or what techniques we use to avoid nightly sex. I count myself fortunate my DH doesn't push for it more than 1x per week.

SAD!

Anonymous wrote:AFAIK, DW does not talk about it with anyone. ANYONE. He libido is gone.

The most I will do is make a joke about lack of sex. Something like, "My wife was mad at me so she decided to withhold sex.....she broke my wrists."

Funny! Sorry, buddy.

We rarely talk about details of sex. More like sexual frequency, how often, which usually is someone complaining their husband wants it too much or what techniques we use to avoid nightly sex. I count myself fortunate my DH doesn't push for it more than 1x per week.

Anonymous wrote:Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.

This is why so many marriages are lousy. To wish that your husband gets ED is a sorry statement. No wonder so many men have affairs.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.

There are women who believe Viagra was created by Satan himself.
There are women who pray for an ANTI Viagra drug (one that *causes* ED) that they can slip into his coffee.

I'm not religious, but I know many would love a Anti Viagra!

This seems very sad to me.

No, never. I'm not interested in my friend's sex life and I 'm not interested in their bowel movements either! Both are too personal. I don't share either. Too much sharing going on in social media as it is.

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Anonymous wrote:Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.

There are women who believe Viagra was created by Satan himself.
There are women who pray for an ANTI Viagra drug (one that *causes* ED) that they can slip into his coffee.

I'm not religious, but I know many would love a Anti Viagra!

Anonymous wrote:Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.

There are women who believe Viagra was created by Satan himself.
There are women who pray for an ANTI Viagra drug (one that *causes* ED) that they can slip into his coffee.

My BF and I never talked about that. I think it betrays your spouse. I wouldn't want my spouse telling anyone anything, those are the rules. Some are young and/or immature who feel the need to do that imo.

Yes but with the closest friends.

Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.