Whoa. I am 14:32.
I wasn't smearing any of the names - I was actually trying to be helpful!
Since the OP likes Dixie so much and is getting such negative feedback, I was trying to suggest names/nicknames that are similar but might not be perceived as offensive, the way Dixie apparently is for some people.
I was thinking (I guess I should have stated it outright) that she could to with something along the lines of a traditional name like Alexandra -- use Lexi as a nickname; it has a similar sound to Dixie but not the same connotations and the kid can use the "real" name as an adult.
Raise your hand if you think Rose is a trailer trash stripper name.
Gosh, you all are SO mean sometimes.