Anonymous wrote:OP here. A few things:
1. I am a Gen X Male. I'm sure I'll be summarily slammed.
2. I do agree that it may be sexist that they are not asking the woman next to me who telework's just as much as I do to move to be closer to the team.
3. I am not a fed.
4. Leadership has not asked me to do this. A program ops person has. She's a nice person and part of me wants to do it to just make her life easier because if I say no it's probably a pain for her and she has a tough job.
5. I'll probably do it because I telework but because my manager framed it recently as a perk and related to compensation I don't think my interpretation is off base. It's not about the actual office as it is the point.
I don't think you need to move or even need to respond, honestly. But, if it really makes no difference to you, stop making it personal and just give up the office to be a team player. I feel like that will make everyone happier in the end- there's no requirement to get upset out of principle.