Anonymous
Post 05/14/2017 13:20     Subject: Red Flags?
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday I had the day off from work. I woke up and did some chores around the house. I then packed up a cooler and went to a nearby park with my chair and speaker and toenail polish. I sat out in the sun enjoying my day off. I was texting my boyfriend a lot throughout the day. Because I had my spotify on for hours, it drained my phone battery. I went back home to charge my phone. I had told him my phone died and that I was home. I then left my house (with my phone) and went to the store and to pick up my daughter from school.
Upon driving up the road to my house on the way home, I saw him pass me. He had driven by my house. I texted him a jokingly text saying, "Stalk much?" thinking it was funny.

He then broke up with me because he said that I lied about being home when I wasn't. He is correct in that I did not tell him that I had left to go pick up my daughter from school and to run to the store. He said that I was acting "Too nice" all day and he knew "something was up because I called him 'babe' "
He blocked me and said I was cheating on him. Told me I wasn't a "Godly" person and that now I am a "ghost" to him.

Is this utter ridiculous? Should I forgive him? Was in in the wrong at all for not telling him I left to go to the store?



He is a controlling abusive man. Be glad he's gone, and let him stay gone. He sounds very scary. Like stalker killer murder-suicide scary.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 09:05     Subject: Red Flags?
This Isco PP who says do not subject your DD to this.

Has he called you names like this before? Even "whore"? I'm guessing yes, and you've gone back to him in the past because he's "otherwise a good guy"??

Time for some therapy to better understand why you would even want to be in the same room as this guy let alone be in a relationship with him.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 08:22     Subject: Red Flags?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Buy and read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin De Becker. Do not under any circumstances respond to this man. Any attention you give him will just be the intermittant reinforcement that he needs.



+1 Good book. You've got a crazy man on your hands.


This has to be a joke post because no one is this dim.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 08:11     Subject: Red Flags?
Anonymous wrote:Buy and read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin De Becker. Do not under any circumstances respond to this man. Any attention you give him will just be the intermittant reinforcement that he needs.



+1 Good book. You've got a crazy man on your hands.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 07:55     Subject: Red Flags?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's not you OP, it's him. People with trust issues always assume they're being cheated on.


OP here. I am not wanting to throw the baby out with the bathwater, so to speak. I really do love him and he is great in a lot of ways, it's just this. This constantly being accused over stupid reasons is just getting old. Do I realize that people have issues and just try to look past it?


Give your DD up for adoption - you are too dumb to be her mother if you have this lunatic in your life. Call social services now so this idiot only kills you and not your DD
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 07:53     Subject: Red Flags?
He's frightening.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 07:52     Subject: Red Flags?
Anonymous wrote:OP here.

He just sent me an email saying "I hope you get hit by a bus. F*ck off, Whore"
Safe to say I'm trying to figure how to block gmail.


Where did you find this idiot? Before you block him write him back and tell him that his emails are unwelcome and that any further communication will be sent to the police. Email him back do not talk to him. Also tell him that you are requesting that he should stay away from you and your DD and if he does bother you you will go to court and get a restraining order.

Seriously - contact the police for advisement now.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 07:44     Subject: Re:Red Flags?
Anonymous wrote:Do you need to ask? He's not normal and he gave you a big red flag. Never contact him, he's a nut job OP.

Godly, lol. Sounds like a religious nut to boot.


You have a daughter and you are considering having any more contact with this man? You need some serious counseling and guidance!

Consider his ghosting the gift that keeps giving. If he contacts you again - which he probably will because he's just trying to control you and he's crazy - tell him to stop or you will call the police. And then call the police.

If you have further contact with this idiot you should just put your daughter up for adoption because this man is dangerous and not wired right.