I'm the same way. After I had my twins I never lost the weight and now I'm between a 2/4 with toned limbs and a rounded belly. Pet of it is separated abdominal muscles that I've never fixed and part of it is the last 10lbs I'm hanging onto. Right now I don't exercise other than taking care of the babies and walking them in the stroller. I'm too tired to have the willpower and discipline I used to have and I use caffeine, sugar and wine as crutches to get through the tiring days. One day when I'm on a. Enter schedule I'll work on my stomach but for now I'm just enjoying my larger size clothes.

Oh man. I debate the same thing with myself all the time. I talk myself up all day and at night, cave with the wine. Honestly, I'd rather enjoy myself with food/alcohol a bit. I work out really hard every day, and eat pretty healthfully, so my body looks really good. It could look even better if I cut out the crap, but damn, life is too short. You should enjoy it (within reason!)