Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, but they grew up there. There grandmother still lives there. Other family still lives there.
It will ALWAYS be "their" neighborhood, because THEY have a family history there. You, do not. You're there until your next career move happens, and you're off to another city. And after you leave, they'll stil be double parking, long after you're gentrifying someplace else.
Your white privilege has no power when it comes to church parking.
Deal.
My husband is white, born and raised in this city. It's not white or black it's D.C. Vs MD
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, but they grew up there. There grandmother still lives there. Other family still lives there.
It will ALWAYS be "their" neighborhood, because THEY have a family history there. You, do not. You're there until your next career move happens, and you're off to another city. And after you leave, they'll stil be double parking, long after you're gentrifying someplace else.
Your white privilege has no power when it comes to church parking.
Deal.
Anonymous wrote:Around Lincoln Park in SE DC, have noticed on Sundays, cars park along the park-side of the street which is normally a driving lane with no parking allowed. I think this is for a church. Why are the cars parked illegally not ticketed? Does this happen elsewhere in DC? What hours can you illegally park here and not get ticketed?
Anonymous wrote:Around Lincoln Park in SE DC, have noticed on Sundays, cars park along the park-side of the street which is normally a driving lane with no parking allowed. I think this is for a church. Why are the cars parked illegally not ticketed? Does this happen elsewhere in DC? What hours can you illegally park here and not get ticketed?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I grew up in Massachusetts, where my family moved in 1620. All of my extended family still lives there, and even though I haven't been in resident in almost 30 years I still read the hometown paper online and root for the local sports teams.
I wouldn't in a million years dream of telling an actual Massachusetts resident -- even a newcomer -- that I somehow have a greater voice in local affairs than I do. That newcomer lives there, I don't.
a greater voice in local affairs than he does
Anonymous wrote:I grew up in Massachusetts, where my family moved in 1620. All of my extended family still lives there, and even though I haven't been in resident in almost 30 years I still read the hometown paper online and root for the local sports teams.
I wouldn't in a million years dream of telling an actual Massachusetts resident -- even a newcomer -- that I somehow have a greater voice in local affairs than I do. That newcomer lives there, I don't.
Anonymous wrote:DC doesn't generally enforce any parking on Sundays.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Go to church in your own neighborhood.
They ARE in their "own" neighborhood.
YOU are the outsider. Why is this so hard for you to understand? It's a very simple thing....
No, I LIVE in DC. These people driving from Maryland do not. Is that seriously hard for YOU to understand?
You're missing the point.
You live there NOW.
Their parents and grandparents lived there before you were even born. They might not live there now, but they grew up there, and it's still THEIR neighborhood, regardless of where they live now, or who occupies it at the moment.
What would you say if someone from a different era, i.e., before restrictive covenants were struck down as unconstitutional, saying that these grandparents can't be there because of that tradition of whiteness? That it's really white people's neighborhood? It's the same level of ridiculousness as your argument about legacy ownership and holds no water.
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, but they grew up there. There grandmother still lives there. Other family still lives there.
It will ALWAYS be "their" neighborhood, because THEY have a family history there. You, do not. You're there until your next career move happens, and you're off to another city. And after you leave, they'll stil be double parking, long after you're gentrifying someplace else.
Your white privilege has no power when it comes to church parking.
Deal.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Go to church in your own neighborhood.
They ARE in their "own" neighborhood.
YOU are the outsider. Why is this so hard for you to understand? It's a very simple thing....
No, I LIVE in DC. These people driving from Maryland do not. Is that seriously hard for YOU to understand?
You're missing the point.
You live there NOW.
Their parents and grandparents lived there before you were even born. They might not live there now, but they grew up there, and it's still THEIR neighborhood, regardless of where they live now, or who occupies it at the moment.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Go to church in your own neighborhood.
They ARE in their "own" neighborhood.
YOU are the outsider. Why is this so hard for you to understand? It's a very simple thing....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Go to church in your own neighborhood.
They ARE in their "own" neighborhood.
YOU are the outsider. Why is this so hard for you to understand? It's a very simple thing....
No, I LIVE in DC. These people driving from Maryland do not. Is that seriously hard for YOU to understand?
You're missing the point.
You live there NOW.
Their parents and grandparents lived there before you were even born. They might not live there now, but they grew up there, and it's still THEIR neighborhood, regardless of where they live now, or who occupies it at the moment.