Anonymous wrote:I think Dr. Abassi felt that overall my eggs are probably good, given that my FSH and estrogen are all good/normal, as well as my AFC, even if my AMH is bad. (FSH, 7; estrogen, 50, AFC, 12). This is what Cornell and GW also said (they basically said we're going to disregard your AMH because other nu,bers are good). But the fact remains that I have not had a single BFP in 2 years of trying. Dr. Abassi suspected repeat implantation failure issues, ran tests, and my immune numbers are pretty much uniformly abnormal.
So you can see why I'm confused and not sure what to think or how to proceed. But this discussion is very helpful!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - which immunity tests did you do? Which treatments did they recommend?
Have you done a RPL panel too? Clotting factors, etc?
How is your thyroid? What is your TSH?
FWIW, after dabbling with a few IVF cycles down here and the immunity path, we finally found success at Cornell. If you want your absolute best shot with OE, just go there IMO.
OP here. I've had my thyroid tested about 5 times in the last two years. Always normal results and TSH is 2.1. I have asked each Dr. whether this is too high and they all said it is perfectly fine for TTC.
I have not had RPL panel done because I have not had any RPLs. I just cannot get pregnant and Dr. Abassi believes I have repeat implantation failure. I have not done the clotting panel yet. I did the Beers blood test--it tested for about 10 different things.
I think Dr. Abassi felt that overall my eggs are probably good, given that my FSH and estrogen are all good/normal, as well as my AFC, even if my AMH is bad. (FSH, 7; estrogen, 50, AFC, 12). This is what Cornell and GW also said (they basically said we're going to disregard your AMH because other nu,bers are good). But the fact remains that I have not had a single BFP in 2 years of trying. Dr. Abassi suspected repeat implantation failure issues, ran tests, and my immune numbers are pretty much uniformly abnormal.
So you can see why I'm confused and not sure what to think or how to proceed. But this discussion is very helpful!
Seems strange to me that Abassi would think implantation failures when your numbers, age and response to stims suggest bad eggs. It makes me think she is just telling you what she thinks you want to hear. Given your reluctance to do multiple cycles, maybe you should go directly to donor egg.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - which immunity tests did you do? Which treatments did they recommend?
Have you done a RPL panel too? Clotting factors, etc?
How is your thyroid? What is your TSH?
FWIW, after dabbling with a few IVF cycles down here and the immunity path, we finally found success at Cornell. If you want your absolute best shot with OE, just go there IMO.
OP here. I've had my thyroid tested about 5 times in the last two years. Always normal results and TSH is 2.1. I have asked each Dr. whether this is too high and they all said it is perfectly fine for TTC.
I have not had RPL panel done because I have not had any RPLs. I just cannot get pregnant and Dr. Abassi believes I have repeat implantation failure. I have not done the clotting panel yet. I did the Beers blood test--it tested for about 10 different things.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - which immunity tests did you do? Which treatments did they recommend?
Have you done a RPL panel too? Clotting factors, etc?
How is your thyroid? What is your TSH?
FWIW, after dabbling with a few IVF cycles down here and the immunity path, we finally found success at Cornell. If you want your absolute best shot with OE, just go there IMO.
OP here. I've had my thyroid tested about 5 times in the last two years. Always normal results and TSH is 2.1. I have asked each Dr. whether this is too high and they all said it is perfectly fine for TTC.
I have not had RPL panel done because I have not had any RPLs. I just cannot get pregnant and Dr. Abassi believes I have repeat implantation failure. I have not done the clotting panel yet. I did the Beers blood test--it tested for about 10 different things.
Seems strange to me that Abassi would think implantation failures when your numbers, age and response to stims suggest bad eggs. It makes me think she is just telling you what she thinks you want to hear. Given your reluctance to do multiple cycles, maybe you should go directly to donor egg.
I don't think you understand how this works. Abassi ran actual tests, the results of which indicate that OP's uterine environment is incompatible with pregnancy and normal implantation. She isn't guessing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - which immunity tests did you do? Which treatments did they recommend?
Have you done a RPL panel too? Clotting factors, etc?
How is your thyroid? What is your TSH?
FWIW, after dabbling with a few IVF cycles down here and the immunity path, we finally found success at Cornell. If you want your absolute best shot with OE, just go there IMO.
OP here. I've had my thyroid tested about 5 times in the last two years. Always normal results and TSH is 2.1. I have asked each Dr. whether this is too high and they all said it is perfectly fine for TTC.
I have not had RPL panel done because I have not had any RPLs. I just cannot get pregnant and Dr. Abassi believes I have repeat implantation failure. I have not done the clotting panel yet. I did the Beers blood test--it tested for about 10 different things.
Seems strange to me that Abassi would think implantation failures when your numbers, age and response to stims suggest bad eggs. It makes me think she is just telling you what she thinks you want to hear. Given your reluctance to do multiple cycles, maybe you should go directly to donor egg.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - which immunity tests did you do? Which treatments did they recommend?
Have you done a RPL panel too? Clotting factors, etc?
How is your thyroid? What is your TSH?
FWIW, after dabbling with a few IVF cycles down here and the immunity path, we finally found success at Cornell. If you want your absolute best shot with OE, just go there IMO.
OP here. I've had my thyroid tested about 5 times in the last two years. Always normal results and TSH is 2.1. I have asked each Dr. whether this is too high and they all said it is perfectly fine for TTC.
I have not had RPL panel done because I have not had any RPLs. I just cannot get pregnant and Dr. Abassi believes I have repeat implantation failure. I have not done the clotting panel yet. I did the Beers blood test--it tested for about 10 different things.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Given that only one doctor suspects immune issues and others (including Cornell, which is a leader in the field of IVF) don't think immune issues are at play, why not listen to the majority of doctors? You haven't mentioned finances, but if I were you I would either do the two cycle package at SG or go to Cornell. It seems like your eggs aren't great based on your stats and your response to the stims for the IUIs so I don't see a reason to suspect immune issues at this point. At 38, it is much more likely to be your age/egg quality (sorry).
Others, including Cornell, don't believe in immune issues, and therefore never suspect them. Many places also don't believe in blood clotting issues, despite studies pointing to the opposite. OP said that she was tested for immune issues and multiple thing came up as red flags.
This is the PP - Cornell docs are very up on the latest research and do a lot of peer reviewed studies. If they don't believe in immune issues, don't you think there is a chance that they don't exist? Of course, even if they didn't exist, "treating" women for them would still lead to pregnancies since IVF is essentially a roll of the dice. Given that OP is older, why not start with the obvious diagnosis (age/egg quality)? It would be one thing if she failed after transferring multiple perfect looking blasts, but that is not the case here.
OP here. I think what you're saying is very valid. I guess though the reason I investigated immune issues before trying a round of IVF us that my goal is to have a baby with the fewest number of IVF cycles and fewest amounts of meds possible. So ideally that would be only doing one round of IVF total, which is why I am open to donor eggs given my low AMH and poor response to IUIs. Of course I would prefer to use own eggs but I also don't want to do IVF round after IVF round and taking tons of IVF drugs in order to find my one golden egg given my ovarian reserve issues.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - which immunity tests did you do? Which treatments did they recommend?
Have you done a RPL panel too? Clotting factors, etc?
How is your thyroid? What is your TSH?
FWIW, after dabbling with a few IVF cycles down here and the immunity path, we finally found success at Cornell. If you want your absolute best shot with OE, just go there IMO.
OP here. I've had my thyroid tested about 5 times in the last two years. Always normal results and TSH is 2.1. I have asked each Dr. whether this is too high and they all said it is perfectly fine for TTC.
I have not had RPL panel done because I have not had any RPLs. I just cannot get pregnant and Dr. Abassi believes I have repeat implantation failure. I have not done the clotting panel yet. I did the Beers blood test--it tested for about 10 different things.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Given that only one doctor suspects immune issues and others (including Cornell, which is a leader in the field of IVF) don't think immune issues are at play, why not listen to the majority of doctors? You haven't mentioned finances, but if I were you I would either do the two cycle package at SG or go to Cornell. It seems like your eggs aren't great based on your stats and your response to the stims for the IUIs so I don't see a reason to suspect immune issues at this point. At 38, it is much more likely to be your age/egg quality (sorry).
Others, including Cornell, don't believe in immune issues, and therefore never suspect them. Many places also don't believe in blood clotting issues, despite studies pointing to the opposite. OP said that she was tested for immune issues and multiple thing came up as red flags.
This is the PP - Cornell docs are very up on the latest research and do a lot of peer reviewed studies. If they don't believe in immune issues, don't you think there is a chance that they don't exist? Of course, even if they didn't exist, "treating" women for them would still lead to pregnancies since IVF is essentially a roll of the dice. Given that OP is older, why not start with the obvious diagnosis (age/egg quality)? It would be one thing if she failed after transferring multiple perfect looking blasts, but that is not the case here.
Anonymous wrote:OP - which immunity tests did you do? Which treatments did they recommend?
Have you done a RPL panel too? Clotting factors, etc?
How is your thyroid? What is your TSH?
FWIW, after dabbling with a few IVF cycles down here and the immunity path, we finally found success at Cornell. If you want your absolute best shot with OE, just go there IMO.