Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW absolutely will not have sex with kids around. It is always when they go for sleepovers or we go away

So you guys have sex like three times a year then? Yay, go you.

Yeah I wouldn't be happy with that and I'm the wife.

One of the reasons we bought the house we did is for the separation between the master bedroom and the other bedrooms.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When the relationship was new, DW & I used to have sex at friends houses, relatives houses, etc. Now she doesn't want to do it at those places or if kids are awake at home. It's a question of desire, and she simply doesn't have as much of that desire as she used to. A sad but (I'm sure) common tale.

Exactly my scenario with DW. Only in one position when kids are dead asleep. A massive 180 from when we were dating. At least it's 2-3x per month which is better than some

They have your kids and the status that being married + a mother gives them. Why put in any effort now?

My daughter knows that married couples have sex and that this is a normal and healthy part of life.

We obviously don't swing from the ceiling fan or shout like porn stars when she's around, but if she happens to hear the bed rocking or a bit of vocalization when she leaves her teen cave and uses the hall bathroom it's not the end of the world. We hush up if we hear her in the hall but she's not an idiot and probably knows that if we go to our room and shut and lock the door on a Sunday afternoon (as we did this weekend) we're probably doing what couples do.

If you won't have sex with them in the house but you will fight with them in the house you might want to take a look at your approach.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 y.o. DS hopped into bed with us this very morning while DH was inside me. He didn't pull out right away and tried to finish while DS was trying to cuddle up in front of me. I wanted to strangle DH and gave him a horse kick bc he was still slowly pumping away after a minute or two (Yes, door should have been locked). Sex is frequent so he should've stopped right away. DS had no clue, but I was infinitely uncomfortable.

Your DH is abusive and disgusting, and I am NO prude. You are a foul thing for posting that, christ.

Actually, here's the real troll post ... ^^^

Anonymous wrote:My kids are little and sleep hard so they don't concern me. But I cannot do it when we have house guests which my husband doesn't get. Just literally can't. It bothers me too much to think my MIL or whoever could hear.

Yup I'm the same way. And have always been like this, even when we started dating- I don't consider myself a prude but I guess I'm a prude in that way. It's not a matter of desire for me.

I'm thinking when our kids get older we may have to repurpose the white noise machine for privacy.

Anonymous wrote:When the relationship was new, DW & I used to have sex at friends houses, relatives houses, etc. Now she doesn't want to do it at those places or if kids are awake at home. It's a question of desire, and she simply doesn't have as much of that desire as she used to. A sad but (I'm sure) common tale.

Exactly my scenario with DW. Only in one position when kids are dead asleep. A massive 180 from when we were dating. At least it's 2-3x per month which is better than some

When the relationship was new, DW & I used to have sex at friends houses, relatives houses, etc. Now she doesn't want to do it at those places or if kids are awake at home. It's a question of desire, and she simply doesn't have as much of that desire as she used to. A sad but (I'm sure) common tale.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 y.o. DS hopped into bed with us this very morning while DH was inside me. He didn't pull out right away and tried to finish while DS was trying to cuddle up in front of me. I wanted to strangle DH and gave him a horse kick bc he was still slowly pumping away after a minute or two (Yes, door should have been locked). Sex is frequent so he should've stopped right away. DS had no clue, but I was infinitely uncomfortable.

Thats truly disgusting and sickening and reminds me of this XOJane article about a child molestor who was always trying to have sex with this woman while her child was in bed.

Truly gross. Your DH has issues

I'm thinking this should be reported to the police. If they choose to investigate they can track down the family through the IP, which this site would be required to furnish if ordered to

OK, psycho.

Psycho is the person who continues having sex while her child is cuddling her. That's disgusting. And if I knew the person, I'd absolutely call the cops. It's not okay behavior. Your child is physically engaging with you while your husband is f'ing you and you think this is okay? WTF kind of sick pervert are you?

Oh Shut it, you freak. Go back and read the bolded parts. You are twisting the PP's words to fit your agenda. Go find real child abuse instead of reporting made up ones to the cops.

A close family member of mine works for CPS and they/the cops wouldn't do anything about this. They are too busy investigating real, horrific child abuse. If this was brought before a judge they would be absolutely furious for wasting the court's time.

My kids are little and sleep hard so they don't concern me. But I cannot do it when we have house guests which my husband doesn't get. Just literally can't. It bothers me too much to think my MIL or whoever could hear.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 y.o. DS hopped into bed with us this very morning while DH was inside me. He didn't pull out right away and tried to finish while DS was trying to cuddle up in front of me. I wanted to strangle DH and gave him a horse kick bc he was still slowly pumping away after a minute or two (Yes, door should have been locked). Sex is frequent so he should've stopped right away. DS had no clue, but I was infinitely uncomfortable.

Thats truly disgusting and sickening and reminds me of this XOJane article about a child molestor who was always trying to have sex with this woman while her child was in bed.

Truly gross. Your DH has issues

I'm thinking this should be reported to the police. If they choose to investigate they can track down the family through the IP, which this site would be required to furnish if ordered to

OK, psycho.

Psycho is the person who continues having sex while her child is cuddling her. That's disgusting. And if I knew the person, I'd absolutely call the cops. It's not okay behavior. Your child is physically engaging with you while your husband is f'ing you and you think this is okay? WTF kind of sick pervert are you?

Oh Shut it, you freak. Go back and read the bolded parts. You are twisting the PP's words to fit your agenda. Go find real child abuse instead of reporting made up ones to the cops.

Crazy Story:

I have a friend who once heard her parents having sex at night when she was around 19 or 20 years old. She could hear her mother making what she considered to be weird sounds, and the bed was squeaking. She tried to ignore the noise and go to sleep, but accordingly to her, it was just too much. So, in anger she got out of her room and loudly banged on their door several times. The noises and squeaking stopped.

The next morning, when she went downstairs into the kitchen, her mother could not look at her in the eyes.

Her dad, on the other hand was visibly furious. Without directly addressing my friend, he started yelling(she was the only other person at home that night) : "This is my house, and I can make love to my wife when I want, where I want and how I want. Anyone who has a problem with that can go find somewhere else to live." Her mother almost sank into the floor from the embarrassment.

I am still not sure who was crazier; my friend for banging on their door or her dad for the rant. I guess she inherited the crazy from her dad.

*squeaking

I remember in high school, sleeping over at my friend's house, her parents got really loud. Moaning and squealing springs and slamming headboard and "Oh, [name], Oh, God!" We were in the basement "hangout" and they were right above us in the master suite on the main level. My friend got so fed up that she grabbed a broom, stood on the coffee table and smacked the ceiling/their floor repeatedly with the handle shouting "For the love of God, will you please shut up? WE CAN HEAR YOU!" They laughed at us and went right on fucking. It was charming. And by charming, I mean it was really gross!

I walked in on my parents twice in high school. Once when I came home early from school only to find that they had also come home early and were fucking on the living room sofa (I didn't sit there again for weeks), and another time when I'd heard a scary noise outside my window and wanted my dad to check it out. I also used to find their used condoms in the trash can, and on one memorable occasion, on their nightstand.

There's no point to either of these stories. This thread just reminded me of them. And maybe that IS the point - despite these events having occurred, I had pretty much forgotten about them until I was reminded by this thread.

For the record, the DH who kept fucking his wife in front of the 4 year old is gross, but the wife said she was extremely uncomfortable with it, so could people maybe lay off of her and stop calling her a sick freak? Also, involving the police seems extreme. Let the poor woman work things out on her own.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 y.o. DS hopped into bed with us this very morning while DH was inside me. He didn't pull out right away and tried to finish while DS was trying to cuddle up in front of me. I wanted to strangle DH and gave him a horse kick bc he was still slowly pumping away after a minute or two (Yes, door should have been locked). Sex is frequent so he should've stopped right away. DS had no clue, but I was infinitely uncomfortable.

Thats truly disgusting and sickening and reminds me of this XOJane article about a child molestor who was always trying to have sex with this woman while her child was in bed.

Truly gross. Your DH has issues

I'm thinking this should be reported to the police. If they choose to investigate they can track down the family through the IP, which this site would be required to furnish if ordered to

OK, psycho.

Psycho is the person who continues having sex while her child is cuddling her. That's disgusting. And if I knew the person, I'd absolutely call the cops. It's not okay behavior. Your child is physically engaging with you while your husband is f'ing you and you think this is okay? WTF kind of sick pervert are you?