Anonymous wrote:My daughter is cute but does not have that sexual tween look so many girls her age are making it work for them better than she is.

I think she will peak her early 20s.

Anonymous wrote:I think that my kids are reasonably attractive and nice- which makes them even more attractive.

Tantrums and bad mouthing in teenagers is....ewe.

Anonymous wrote:Or is it just me? Am I delusional? Or is it normal for parents to think that? I mean, I know majority of parents are bias in this regard and I am no different, but I honestly think my 17 year old DS and 15 year old DD are really good looking kids. I have seen other good looking kids and admit that there might be one or two better looking kids. I do admit that my kids aren't perfect in every way, they could be a bit taller. I am aware that they have issues in other aspects, DS badmouths and DD is prone to tantrums, and I am working on that. So, where do you stand on this? Are your teens really good looking to you and are you objective or subjective? Would you admit even to yourself that your teens are not that good looking? Thanks!

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is cute but does not have that sexual tween look so many girls her age are making it work for them better than she is.

I think she will peak her early 20s.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares. Really?
My DC is very exotic looking and people are completely floored by his mix and skin tone. I think my child is stunning but I don't know if anyone else thinks they are, I also don't care what others think about my child. For the most part I also don't find Caucasian children attractive, so it may only be you.

OP here. I am sure your DC is stunning. I also find that AA and other background have extremely attractive teens. I do not believe in race concept, only in ethnic differences. I think we are all one race. In general sense, I find that AA teens are more attractive than Caucasian teens. That is not to say that there are no very attractive Caucasian teen and adults. But that could be because of my diverse background.

The way you guys talk about race and "Caucasians" is really off-putting.

Caucasian children aren't attractive? Imagine if a white person said dark-skinned children weren't attractive? Nasty people. From the way you write, I am guessing that despite any external beauty your children might have, they are ugly on the inside, just like you two.

I see nothing racist in my post. Possibly you are racist and see racism in everything? There is no such thing as reverse racism. You sound like entitled white person who doesn't see beauty in anything but in white people. I am Caucasian and I am entitled to my opinion and it I feel free to say what I observe, no matter the ethnicity. I say it to all people no matter the skin, you know why? Because I am not racist. Do you follow Hilary Clinton's example and call African American Youths "super predators?" My opinion is just my opinion, what am I now reverse/reverse racist?

Anonymous wrote:I'm totally biased and yes I think they are really good looking. I would never come out and talk about it though. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say. Seems like my teen daughter has a ton of admirers though. I never did at her age (and wasn't as attractive) My son is gorgeous but I fear he'll be short and heavy as an adult. I have a brother with those characteristics so it's possible.

Anonymous wrote:I think most well-adjusted people don't think about this all that much OP.

Also, lots of unattractive teens grow up to be good-looking adults and vice versa. Being attractive at 15 isn't necessarily a predictor. I am tall and naturally thin. When I was 15, I was a gangly hot mess and couldn't have paid a boy to date me. As an adult, I'm doing just fine and my high school friend who had giant boobs and had it going on at 15 is a hot mess.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares. Really?
My DC is very exotic looking and people are completely floored by his mix and skin tone. I think my child is stunning but I don't know if anyone else thinks they are, I also don't care what others think about my child. For the most part I also don't find Caucasian children attractive, so it may only be you.

OP here. I am sure your DC is stunning. I also find that AA and other background have extremely attractive teens. I do not believe in race concept, only in ethnic differences. I think we are all one race. In general sense, I find that AA teens are more attractive than Caucasian teens. That is not to say that there are no very attractive Caucasian teen and adults. But that could be because of my diverse background.

The way you guys talk about race and "Caucasians" is really off-putting.

Caucasian children aren't attractive? Imagine if a white person said dark-skinned children weren't attractive? Nasty people. From the way you write, I am guessing that despite any external beauty your children might have, they are ugly on the inside, just like you two.