Anonymous wrote:Creepy loser male who feels entitled to interrupt women in public. Nothing new about it.
If you want to have fun, next time say "I know" and watch him get flabbergasted and angry.If you just want to get rid of him quick, (what most women want) then a "thank you" and turning back around is perfect. Don't reward men who intrude on women's time. You did the right thing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You said thank you. You didn't ignore him. Might have been nice had you made eye contact, smiled and brightly said "Thank you!"
Have you ever considered he might not have been trying to pick you up? I'm a straight female and sometimes compliment people when something about them strikes me - their great smile, a bracelet, their shoes, whatever - and I'm not trying to pick anyone up.
Have you ever stopped a man in public and said, "Extreme me, sir, but you are stunning."
Right. I thought not.
Of course it was a pickup attempt. And thats being charitable.
Anonymous wrote:Here's the math for those wondering:
Guy the woman finds unattractive = creepy
Guy the woman finds totally hot = charming and assertive
The challenge for guys = figuring out which one you are before even saying hello to someone
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have men do this to me. I do the same thing. I make my smile awkward and say, "Thanks" and look away, back towards whatever I was doing. I find it truly intrusive and annoying.
Serious question here:
How do you propose men introduce themselves to women to seek romantic interest, or is that only acceptable on Tinder/OKCupid/etc.? I mean, what is acceptable means of a man expressing romantic interest towards you?
Anonymous wrote:Here's the math for those wondering:
Guy the woman finds unattractive = creepy
Guy the woman finds totally hot = charming and assertive
The challenge for guys = figuring out which one you are before even saying hello to someone