Anonymous
10/26/2016 22:44
Subject: For wives - pick three!
1, 5, 4
Anonymous
10/26/2016 22:42
Subject: Re:For wives - pick three!
1, 3, 7.
Anonymous
10/26/2016 15:44
Subject: For wives - pick three!
I stink at #1. So none of the others matter.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 21:48
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Since the "for husbands thread" created a lot of interest how about a wives "pick three" thread for what you want in a husband:
1. Makes a lot of money.
2. Shares in household chores
3. Stay's attractive and fit
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
6. Doesn't lust after a near by neighbor or my sister.
7. OK- #6 is a pushing it but....he cares about my feelings!
Go for it girls!
5, 4, 1
I can't imagine I would enjoy spending time with someone who didn't care about my feelings or lusted after a neighbor/my nonexistent sister.
I am high drive and don't want phone it in duty sex
If he makes a lot of money, we can outsource much of 2.
We all get old.
+1. Same order and justifications.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 21:33
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Since the "for husbands thread" created a lot of interest how about a wives "pick three" thread for what you want in a husband:
1. Makes a lot of money.
2. Shares in household chores
3. Stay's attractive and fit
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
6. Doesn't lust after a near by neighbor or my sister.
7. OK- #6 is a pushing it but....he cares about my feelings!
Go for it girls!
This describes my husband.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 21:24
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.
All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.
Keep hurling insults the truth must really bite. FWI, I am a 40 something marries male with a 200k income and a house in Fairfax.
I just find it funny that all the DCUM's claim to be smarter and make more money than their husbands or can't find a good man to love, yet all they are looking for here is money.
Money whores.
Bless your heart. Somehow you think "a 200k income and a house in Fairfax" makes you ballerific. In this area, that money and location is real regular. But it's always the regular dudes who think somebody is trying to get in their pockets.
You live in FAIRFAX-not a sought after area, btw.
PP needs a dose of reality. The median HHI in this country is about $62k. I make $200k and my wife makes $90k. Whe live in Fairfax in a house that is mortgage free. We also have an investment property in OBX that we will retire to. We have $2.4m is retirement savings and will have a $80k govt pension indexed to inflation. I have an expensive hobby (flying) and we both drive a new Mercedes.
The point is that our relationship has never been based on money. I don't need some fat pig on DCUM insinuating that the earning is inadequate. Jesus you would make Melinda Gates blush and you must be proud to represent the posters here who say the #1 quality you look for in a husband or a high earning potential. No wonder you also complain about no sex and inattentive husbands.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 21:21
Subject: Re:For wives - pick three!
been married 17 years. If I ever jump and remarry these are the qualities I must have:
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
Sex is very important to me. Especially after being in a dead marriage so long. I realize money can't buy me feelings for another.
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
Sex is very important to me. Especially after being in a dead marriage so long. I realize money can't buy me feelings for another.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 17:44
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.
All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.
Keep hurling insults the truth must really bite. FWI, I am a 40 something marries male with a 200k income and a house in Fairfax.
I just find it funny that all the DCUM's claim to be smarter and make more money than their husbands or can't find a good man to love, yet all they are looking for here is money.
Money whores.
Bless your heart. Somehow you think "a 200k income and a house in Fairfax" makes you ballerific. In this area, that money and location is real regular. But it's always the regular dudes who think somebody is trying to get in their pockets.
PP needs a dose of reality. The median HHI in this country is about $62k. I make $200k and my wife makes $90k. Whe live in Fairfax in a house that is mortgage free. We also have an investment property in OBX that we will retire to. We have $2.4m is retirement savings and will have a $80k govt pension indexed to inflation. I have an expensive hobby (flying) and we both drive a new Mercedes.
The point is that our relationship has never been based on money. I don't need some fat pig on DCUM insinuating that the earning is inadequate. Jesus you would make Melinda Gates blush and you must be proud to represent the posters here who say the #1 quality you look for in a husband or a high earning potential. No wonder you also complain about no sex and inattentive husbands.
Except the post says "in this area" not in the continental U.S. Here, your money is OK.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 15:58
Subject: For wives - pick three!
4, 5, and 6.
But above some of those I'd put trustworthy, makes me laugh, good communicator... Actually, I'd take my three plus good sex and we'd be golden.
But above some of those I'd put trustworthy, makes me laugh, good communicator... Actually, I'd take my three plus good sex and we'd be golden.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 15:57
Subject: For wives - pick three!
1, 7, 2
Anonymous
10/25/2016 15:57
Subject: Re:For wives - pick three!
Oh you poor dear.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 15:56
Subject: For wives - pick three!
I'd like a 2, 4, 5 but I'm married to a 1, 3, 6 (well, I don't know who he lusts after but I'm reasonably confident that he's faithful).
Anonymous
10/25/2016 15:41
Subject: For wives - pick three!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.
All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.
Keep hurling insults the truth must really bite. FWI, I am a 40 something marries male with a 200k income and a house in Fairfax.
I just find it funny that all the DCUM's claim to be smarter and make more money than their husbands or can't find a good man to love, yet all they are looking for here is money.
Money whores.
Bless your heart. Somehow you think "a 200k income and a house in Fairfax" makes you ballerific. In this area, that money and location is real regular. But it's always the regular dudes who think somebody is trying to get in their pockets.
PP needs a dose of reality. The median HHI in this country is about $62k. I make $200k and my wife makes $90k. Whe live in Fairfax in a house that is mortgage free. We also have an investment property in OBX that we will retire to. We have $2.4m is retirement savings and will have a $80k govt pension indexed to inflation. I have an expensive hobby (flying) and we both drive a new Mercedes.
The point is that our relationship has never been based on money. I don't need some fat pig on DCUM insinuating that the earning is inadequate. Jesus you would make Melinda Gates blush and you must be proud to represent the posters here who say the #1 quality you look for in a husband or a high earning potential. No wonder you also complain about no sex and inattentive husbands.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 15:41
Subject: For wives - pick three!
I would have always said 1 in the past. My my DH is an academic and therefore does not fulfill 1. But he has all of the others so I believe it was worth the trade. Most days.
Anonymous
10/25/2016 15:07
Subject: For wives - pick three!
ZachF wrote:Out of 20 responses so far, 16 or 80% have chosen #1 while only 9, or 45% chose #4.
Money seems to be more important as a good sex life to nearly twice as many respondents.
I can only speak for myself, but you're right. Sex doesn't provide security...unless I'm out here hoeing and that ain't happening