Anonymous wrote:So most of you only communicate when it’s time to schedule a f@@@ck? Mere logistics? Such romantics

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Anonymous wrote:I had a burner phone and prepaid with cash. Met AP at a bar and was concerned about getting caught. I did the following:

1) Met her at places that I would never go to in places of town that I never went to.

2) Told her that I hated social media and that I avoided it like the plague. Told her that my only phone was my burner phone.

3) Lied to her about where I worked (I told her that I worked as a consultant at the department of homeland security and that my job was not that exciting but not something that I was allowed to talk about).

4) Did not do any pictures with her

5) Did not talk a whole lot about my life with her.

I made it clear that all I wanted to do was have sex and that was cool for while. After about 6 months she started to really push me on some issues and I broke it off with her. She lost her mind and told me that she was going to call my wife. Too bad she had no idea who I was and no idea how to contact me. All she had was a telephone # which I trashed after a week of hysterical text messages.

If you are planning to have an affair, first don't! The fantasies about great sex was not worth the strain of maybe getting caught. I was smart enough to make it less likely but by no means was it foolproof. After throwing the phone away I went home and for the first time in more than 1/2 a year truly relaxed. Never told wife about the affair and I never will.

Its been a couple of years and I think I'm in the clear but I will never be certain that I might run into her somewhere and the cards could come crashing down. My plan would be to lie and deny but who knows if that would work?

Most people affair with people they actually know, though. Not with randoms they pick up at a bar. So anonymity wouldn't work in a majority of cases. But, that story is hilarious.

Anonymous wrote:Morse Code

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Anonymous wrote:Here's a great tip I figured out all on my own.

Go to his iPhone settings, click on battery. You will see how much battery is used for various apps. Then you can see what he is using to communicate.

How could you know if it was email in a web browser?

I wouldn't. It's not 100% but how many people would realistically communicate through email?

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Anonymous wrote:About 50% of apps out there have some sort of messaging. He could be talking to her on Word with Friends. You may never figure it out unless you have some time to really forensically go through his phone.

+1 most game apps have chat features. This makes communication easy.

Is this for real? Anyone who’d go to those creepy lengths to hide what they are doing sounds like they may be a sex addict.

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Anonymous wrote:Here's a great tip I figured out all on my own.

Go to his iPhone settings, click on battery. You will see how much battery is used for various apps. Then you can see what he is using to communicate.

How could you know if it was email in a web browser?

Anonymous wrote:Here's a great tip I figured out all on my own.

Go to his iPhone settings, click on battery. You will see how much battery is used for various apps. Then you can see what he is using to communicate.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a burner phone and prepaid with cash. Met AP at a bar and was concerned about getting caught. I did the following:

1) Met her at places that I would never go to in places of town that I never went to.

2) Told her that I hated social media and that I avoided it like the plague. Told her that my only phone was my burner phone.

3) Lied to her about where I worked (I told her that I worked as a consultant at the department of homeland security and that my job was not that exciting but not something that I was allowed to talk about).

4) Did not do any pictures with her

5) Did not talk a whole lot about my life with her.

I made it clear that all I wanted to do was have sex and that was cool for while. After about 6 months she started to really push me on some issues and I broke it off with her. She lost her mind and told me that she was going to call my wife. Too bad she had no idea who I was and no idea how to contact me. All she had was a telephone # which I trashed after a week of hysterical text messages.

If you are planning to have an affair, first don't! The fantasies about great sex was not worth the strain of maybe getting caught. I was smart enough to make it less likely but by no means was it foolproof. After throwing the phone away I went home and for the first time in more than 1/2 a year truly relaxed. Never told wife about the affair and I never will.

Its been a couple of years and I think I'm in the clear but I will never be certain that I might run into her somewhere and the cards could come crashing down. My plan would be to lie and deny but who knows if that would work?

My sister's "ex" tried something similar, but I did some digging, found out his real name, and blew his life up.

Good luck.