Anonymous
08/24/2016 16:30
Subject: What would your relationship with your MIL be like if she treated you as an equal and an adult?
Anonymous wrote:I think the woman I consider to be my MIL and I get along so well is because neither of us strived to be # 1 or see each other as competition. We each respect the role we have in the man we love ( albeit very differently) life.
We have a mutual respect for each other as people and of our individual boundaries.
Yep
Me too
Anonymous
08/24/2016 15:21
Subject: What would your relationship with your MIL be like if she treated you as an equal and an adult?
For the most part, I get along with MIL fine. She's very nice and caring.
But I wish she knew that if she would just ease up, and stop trying so hard, we could be closer. If she showed me, through her words and actions, that she respected my autonomy and my individuality, I'd be more interested in getting closer with her. I have no desire to be "assimilated" and "indoctrinated." I'm more than a cog in HER family's wheel.
But I wish she knew that if she would just ease up, and stop trying so hard, we could be closer. If she showed me, through her words and actions, that she respected my autonomy and my individuality, I'd be more interested in getting closer with her. I have no desire to be "assimilated" and "indoctrinated." I'm more than a cog in HER family's wheel.