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Anonymous wrote:Schedule is the biggest culprit.

"Schedule" is bullshit. You just aren't prioritizing sex. You're busy with work, kids, pets, exercise, etc.? OK, but there are 168 hours in the week, don't tell me you can't set ONE of those hours aside for sex. Stop putting sex at the bottom of the list and letting "other things" push sex off the list.

WHY you don't want to prioritize sex is the real question.

Spoken like a man who would put sex before kids, work, pets, exercise, etc.

Grow up, perv.

Math is hard. Especially for women.

One hour a week for sex leaves 167 other hours for kids, work, pets, exercise, etc. -- and that's plenty of time.

Logic is hard. Especially for women.

If you don't have sex then your kids, work, pets, exercise, etc. -- i.e., your whole life -- will suffer because your spouse will divorce you or cheat. (And if you are a woman, all the other women on DCUM will cheer you on for doing so.)

Grow up, twat.

Text your mom from the basement, you sound hungry and cranky. She needs to bring you some food.

What I'm going to do is teach my son to avoid women who think wanting one hour of sex a week makes you a "perv", "emotionally immature" with "unrealistic expectations", and a "a typical d!ck who speaks from and for his penis." There are lots of women out there, and he doesn't need one with that kind of obnoxious attitude.

Good grief, listen to yourselves. YOU ARE CRAZY. It is entirely possible, reasonable, and necessary to have sex on a regular basis, despite your "schedule".

Anonymous wrote:No sex because I'm on hormonal therapy after treatment for breast cancer, and sex is too painful even with lube. Since I now produce very few hormones, I have no more sex drive, so no masturbation and no attraction to others. We've been together nearly 30 years, so it is what it is. I feel guilty--he's nearly 53 and was still happy with our regular sex life before cancer--but he doesn't want to hurt me.

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Anonymous wrote:What caused problems was,
1) I wanted him to brush his teeth first. This made me, according to him, too uptight/not spontaneous/not passionate.

2) every time had to be film worthy. In other words I had to act like a porn star. I just didn't have the energy all the time.

3) I had to service him regularly or he'd get grumpy, mean etc. So I tried to keep the frequency up, but then got criticized for not being "passionate" enough.

In other words, I think he had unrealistic expectations of what sex would be like after ten years of marriage, two kids, two jobs, etc. etc. I know I had my failings too, but at least I wanted to try, and did try.

Guys' first impression of sex seems to influence their definition of regular sex. They often get the first regular sex from their college GF who is young, full of hormones and HAS to have it. Plus she's got lots of free time, no kids, job, house, exhausting schedule, etc. Pretty much, he's her only focus.

Because that's their first experience, they think thats the way sex is supposed to be. Parn doesn't help any either.

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Anonymous wrote:Schedule is the biggest culprit.

"Schedule" is bullshit. You just aren't prioritizing sex. You're busy with work, kids, pets, exercise, etc.? OK, but there are 168 hours in the week, don't tell me you can't set ONE of those hours aside for sex. Stop putting sex at the bottom of the list and letting "other things" push sex off the list.

WHY you don't want to prioritize sex is the real question.

Spoken like a man who would put sex before kids, work, pets, exercise, etc.

Grow up, perv.

Math is hard. Especially for women.

One hour a week for sex leaves 167 other hours for kids, work, pets, exercise, etc. -- and that's plenty of time.

Logic is hard. Especially for women.

If you don't have sex then your kids, work, pets, exercise, etc. -- i.e., your whole life -- will suffer because your spouse will divorce you or cheat. (And if you are a woman, all the other women on DCUM will cheer you on for doing so.)

Grow up, twat.

Text your mom from the basement, you sound hungry and cranky. She needs to bring you some food.

Anonymous wrote:What caused problems was,
1) I wanted him to brush his teeth first. This made me, according to him, too uptight/not spontaneous/not passionate.

2) every time had to be film worthy. In other words I had to act like a porn star. I just didn't have the energy all the time.

3) I had to service him regularly or he'd get grumpy, mean etc. So I tried to keep the frequency up, but then got criticized for not being "passionate" enough.

In other words, I think he had unrealistic expectations of what sex would be like after ten years of marriage, two kids, two jobs, etc. etc. I know I had my failings too, but at least I wanted to try, and did try.

Anonymous wrote:I would say that his anal abscess pretty much killed the magic. He claims that half of all men get them so that explains a lot.

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Anonymous wrote:Schedule is the biggest culprit.

"Schedule" is bullshit. You just aren't prioritizing sex. You're busy with work, kids, pets, exercise, etc.? OK, but there are 168 hours in the week, don't tell me you can't set ONE of those hours aside for sex. Stop putting sex at the bottom of the list and letting "other things" push sex off the list.

WHY you don't want to prioritize sex is the real question.

Spoken like a man who would put sex before kids, work, pets, exercise, etc.

Grow up, perv.

Math is hard. Especially for women.

One hour a week for sex leaves 167 other hours for kids, work, pets, exercise, etc. -- and that's plenty of time.

Logic is hard. Especially for women.

If you don't have sex then your kids, work, pets, exercise, etc. -- i.e., your whole life -- will suffer because your spouse will divorce you or cheat. (And if you are a woman, all the other women on DCUM will cheer you on for doing so.)

Grow up, twat.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Schedule is the biggest culprit.

"Schedule" is bullshit. You just aren't prioritizing sex. You're busy with work, kids, pets, exercise, etc.? OK, but there are 168 hours in the week, don't tell me you can't set ONE of those hours aside for sex. Stop putting sex at the bottom of the list and letting "other things" push sex off the list.

WHY you don't want to prioritize sex is the real question.

Spoken like a man who would put sex before kids, work, pets, exercise, etc.

Grow up, perv.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Schedule is the biggest culprit.

"Schedule" is bullshit. You just aren't prioritizing sex. You're busy with work, kids, pets, exercise, etc.? OK, but there are 168 hours in the week, don't tell me you can't set ONE of those hours aside for sex. Stop putting sex at the bottom of the list and letting "other things" push sex off the list.

WHY you don't want to prioritize sex is the real question.

Spoken like a man who would put sex before kids, work, pets, exercise, etc.

Grow up, perv.