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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:OP, I think you'd be crashing your cousins vacation. Please don't! Pay for another vacation. This year, you aren't going for free.

Really, please don't screw up your counsins' plans!

She was planning on being there first, so really, they're crashing hers and she is doing her best to accommodate.

You can't accuse someone of crashing something that they don't know about.

OP, you've had many years of free vacations. Maybe it's time to let your cousin have a turn, and plan a vacation your whole family will enjoy.

You can't accuse OP of crashing for not psychically knowing the cousins would request the same week and her sister would forget.

I am the PP you are responding to. I am not the person who referred to her crashing.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I think you'd be crashing your cousins vacation. Please don't! Pay for another vacation. This year, you aren't going for free.

Really, please don't screw up your counsins' plans!

She was planning on being there first, so really, they're crashing hers and she is doing her best to accommodate.

You can't accuse someone of crashing something that they don't know about.

OP, you've had many years of free vacations. Maybe it's time to let your cousin have a turn, and plan a vacation your whole family will enjoy.

You can't accuse OP of crashing for not psychically knowing the cousins would request the same week and her sister would forget.

But, now that she knows, she'd be a trashy crasher.

I guess, in the way that the sky is usually green.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I think you'd be crashing your cousins vacation. Please don't! Pay for another vacation. This year, you aren't going for free.

Really, please don't screw up your counsins' plans!

She was planning on being there first, so really, they're crashing hers and she is doing her best to accommodate.

You can't accuse someone of crashing something that they don't know about.

OP, you've had many years of free vacations. Maybe it's time to let your cousin have a turn, and plan a vacation your whole family will enjoy.

You can't accuse OP of crashing for not psychically knowing the cousins would request the same week and her sister would forget.

But, now that she knows, she'd be a trashy crasher.

Your DH needs to be grateful that you have so much time ("our week") in the past and ;et go of it this year. I'm not sure if there is a gentle way to invite yourselves to join your cousins (I have some cousins who would be receptive and others not so much) but I think you either plan on going just to his dad's or finding another vacation. If your cousins do invite you along, I would absoluetely leave DH home to work and he can save his vacation time for something else he'd enjoy.