Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Because they realize it's a waste of money.
+1000! Also, with fashion trends, she's probably already gone through whatever trend at least twice in her life. She realizes that it's all bullshit. Clean clothes that fit are the way to go.
Anonymous wrote:I'm 54 and still make an effort on my appearance, but I have no illusions that I can compete with a 30 year old. I do it to feel better about me.
I will say that as I've aged my approach to looking good has changed. I buy more expensive, timeless pieces of clothing and accessories but fewer of them. I spend more on maintaining my nails, hair and complexion but have simplified my makeup somewhat. I'd say I still spend a lot on fashion and my looks, but the emphasis is more on quality than quantity.
Anonymous wrote:Because they realize it's a waste of money.
Anonymous wrote:Not all women are reaching the height of their household income in their mid-40s. This is also an age when a lot couples start to divorce and divorced women in general have lower HHI than married.
Mid-40s and up is also when parents start having to pay for college (or private high schools if they haven't done private elementary & middle school) and that takes a chunk out of HHI.
And then there's the wisdom factor. The older you get the more you realize what is important in life. Maybe women would prefer to spend money on other things, like traveling. Or fixing up their homes. Maybe they already have a lot of nice classic pieces in their wardrobes that don't need replacing.
Or maybe they just look at the current ugly fashion offerings and think $%^&*(&^ this.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Basic CBO.
At a certain point, even if you're attractive for your age, you're no longer the main focus in any environment you're in. People are looking at the 17-35, maybe 40 year olds, not the 50+ year olds. I can totally see how putting a ton of money and effort into your appearance in your 20s and 30s is beneficial and makes sense, but at 50? Why bother? Which isn't to say you totally throw in the towel but the benefits to devoting a good chunk of time and budget to things like having the latest clothes just isn't there anymore. There's no longer much of a payoff.
This is exactly the opposite of the world that I live in. I work in a profession that is 80% female, and the 50+ women (and ESPECIALLY the 60+ women) are the movers and shakers and the ones with power. About 3/4 of my bosses have been women over 50. They are the ones that people are looking TO (not looking at, fwiw) and listening to.
That has nothing to do with their looks though. I'm not saying women over 50 are dead useless. I'm saying they are no longer the ones exhibiting peak attractiveness.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Basic CBO.
At a certain point, even if you're attractive for your age, you're no longer the main focus in any environment you're in. People are looking at the 17-35, maybe 40 year olds, not the 50+ year olds. I can totally see how putting a ton of money and effort into your appearance in your 20s and 30s is beneficial and makes sense, but at 50? Why bother? Which isn't to say you totally throw in the towel but the benefits to devoting a good chunk of time and budget to things like having the latest clothes just isn't there anymore. There's no longer much of a payoff.
This is exactly the opposite of the world that I live in. I work in a profession that is 80% female, and the 50+ women (and ESPECIALLY the 60+ women) are the movers and shakers and the ones with power. About 3/4 of my bosses have been women over 50. They are the ones that people are looking TO (not looking at, fwiw) and listening to.
Anonymous wrote:Basic CBO.
At a certain point, even if you're attractive for your age, you're no longer the main focus in any environment you're in. People are looking at the 17-35, maybe 40 year olds, not the 50+ year olds. I can totally see how putting a ton of money and effort into your appearance in your 20s and 30s is beneficial and makes sense, but at 50? Why bother? Which isn't to say you totally throw in the towel but the benefits to devoting a good chunk of time and budget to things like having the latest clothes just isn't there anymore. There's no longer much of a payoff.