Anonymous
04/01/2016 20:27
Subject: Re:MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
update, op? how did it go?
Anonymous
03/31/2016 13:39
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Last day update. I forgot to mention that this is also the land of Fox News. My MIL told me that Bernie Sanders wrote porn and what kind of president would be make, that the Breitbart reporter lied about being assaulted at the Trump rally and that our president doesn't love his country. She know that all her kids are liberal leaning.
The topper, however, is that this morning I heard her telling my 7 year old that Hillary Clinton may go to jail! wtf, really. When they come to our house MIL usually enforces a no politics rule, but I guess at her house, coupled with election year politics, the rules have changed.
16 hours and counting...
The topper, however, is that this morning I heard her telling my 7 year old that Hillary Clinton may go to jail! wtf, really. When they come to our house MIL usually enforces a no politics rule, but I guess at her house, coupled with election year politics, the rules have changed.
16 hours and counting...
Anonymous
03/30/2016 22:36
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Glad you were able to stick it out, OP. Hopefully you will be gone from there as soon as your DC is better!
Anonymous
03/30/2016 19:35
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
In case anyone was wondering, not only did I stay, but one of the kids is sick and I'm going to be here at least one day longer!
It's been fine since her episode, but I'd really really like to be on my way home right now.
It's been fine since her episode, but I'd really really like to be on my way home right now.
Anonymous
03/30/2016 17:31
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Try "I'm sorry you feel that way" instead of "I'm sorry" ... let her own her own sorry crap rather than you being sorry for what you do or say.
Anonymous
03/30/2016 17:27
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Ignore. Don't go on any more trips wiith her.
Anonymous
03/30/2016 00:30
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Anonymous wrote:Op again, my kids are happy as can be btw. They are so thrilled to be here, it's crazy.
My MIL who I almost believe means no harm, has been so mean to me at times, it has brought me to tears. At one point I despised her. Then, one day, I realized that she was dealing with a lot is stuff that I did not know about, after that, I figured if she needed to be mean to me to get through, so be it. Ever since then, I just find the humor in it.
Anonymous
03/29/2016 20:54
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So dh has a shitty relationship with his mom, your marriage is on the rocks and he will go apeshit if you tell him that mil was a jerk to you. I'm missing something
It's complicated people. I feel stressed because things have been not great and on top of it (icing on the cake, if you will) his mom was not very nice to me. DH is always looking for a reason to fight with his mom, and while sometimes it is justified, I often try to keep the peace. Nothing good will come out of a big conflict with his parents, trust me. He needs them more than he thinks he does and he gets deeply hurt when things blow up.
Honestly, I think if we were to split, his parents would try to maintain a relationship with me because 1. I am an easier gateway to the kids and 2. I'm better to them. I am 100% clear that this is all about the grandkids.
So you're a doormat in every relationship you have. Got it.
Anonymous
03/29/2016 19:27
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Op again, my kids are happy as can be btw. They are so thrilled to be here, it's crazy.
Anonymous
03/29/2016 19:26
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Anonymous wrote:So dh has a shitty relationship with his mom, your marriage is on the rocks and he will go apeshit if you tell him that mil was a jerk to you. I'm missing something
It's complicated people. I feel stressed because things have been not great and on top of it (icing on the cake, if you will) his mom was not very nice to me. DH is always looking for a reason to fight with his mom, and while sometimes it is justified, I often try to keep the peace. Nothing good will come out of a big conflict with his parents, trust me. He needs them more than he thinks he does and he gets deeply hurt when things blow up.
Honestly, I think if we were to split, his parents would try to maintain a relationship with me because 1. I am an easier gateway to the kids and 2. I'm better to them. I am 100% clear that this is all about the grandkids.
Anonymous
03/29/2016 19:04
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
Anonymous wrote:So dh has a shitty relationship with his mom, your marriage is on the rocks and he will go apeshit if you tell him that mil was a jerk to you. I'm missing something
Exactly what I was thinking. Why would he care?
Anonymous
03/29/2016 18:49
Subject: MIL issue-do I end our trip early?
So dh has a shitty relationship with his mom, your marriage is on the rocks and he will go apeshit if you tell him that mil was a jerk to you. I'm missing something