Anonymous wrote:I think that one way that people get around the issue you're facing is to add on to their existing house and stay put. Ultimately, you're increasing the value of your home, making it work for your family and not having to spend money to move/pay a realtor.

Anonymous wrote:Did you feel like the price of your house was insane, but you bought anyway? We have a small 2BR and 2 kids and we refuse to pay the $250k more that it would cost to upgrade to 3BRs in our area. Let's say we could probably do it, but I just don't think its going to improve our lives all that much to justify the cost.
So it got me thinking -just wondering how many people buying houses in this area are resigned to the cost feeling like 'too much' for what you get and buying anyway vs. you feel like these prices are fully reasonable to pay.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, we do own. We can certainly make it in our current house, but it requires a decent amount of planning to live simply (ie limited storage, small closets, and just generally not much space so we must consider the scale of any furniture we purchase, constantly weed through belongings for the kids, etc). We've considered upgrading with the appreciation that we've seen in the neighborhood (same footprint houses up and down our street selling for $100-150k more than DH paid when he bought in 2009). BUT it still means a bigger mortgage as the equity/appreciation is not enough to get into a bigger house without a significant increase in what we spend monthly, which we just don't want to do right now with two children in day care.
Anyway, its not that I think this area should be cheap, but I guess I just don't want to dump every cent I make into a house, which is the reason we stay in our 2BR.
Anonymous wrote:Did you feel like the price of your house was insane, but you bought anyway? We have a small 2BR and 2 kids and we refuse to pay the $250k more that it would cost to upgrade to 3BRs in our area. Let's say we could probably do it, but I just don't think its going to improve our lives all that much to justify the cost.
So it got me thinking -just wondering how many people buying houses in this area are resigned to the cost feeling like 'too much' for what you get and buying anyway vs. you feel like these prices are fully reasonable to pay.
Anonymous wrote:When I determined I could get 3 acres and a 4,000 square ft house by a lake in a beautiful suburb far from here for 370k, I determined it was time to leave.