
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If he was doing work for free, then yes unreasonable.
Do you not know that bird droppings can cause diseases in humans?
Anonymous wrote:Look, I'm Asian and my family goes shoe-free in our house. But I would never ask a guest or a worker in my house, whether I paid them or not, to take off their shoes. If anyone asks, I tell them that our family is shoe-free, but guests are optional. Most take off shoes, but some do not. That's fine.
When guests or workers come through, I clean after them. I think it is completely inhospitable to ask guests or workers to take their shoes off and not only inhospitable but also unreasonable to ask a worker to take their shoes off while working in your house. If the thought of dirty shoes in your shower really makes you want to vomit, you need to see a psychologist or psychiatrist for your OCD. If someone were to work in my shower with dirty shoes, I'd wait until they left, then I would get the bathroom cleaner with bleach from the closet, spray it down, go do something for 10 minutes and come back and rinse it off. How hard is that? It's much better to clean up after someone than to be so rude to them as you were, OP.
Anonymous wrote:I would be more concerned about dirty shoes on my floors than a shower. A few square feet of tile is easy to clean.
Anonymous wrote:Look, I'm Asian and my family goes shoe-free in our house. But I would never ask a guest or a worker in my house, whether I paid them or not, to take off their shoes. If anyone asks, I tell them that our family is shoe-free, but guests are optional. Most take off shoes, but some do not. That's fine.
When guests or workers come through, I clean after them. I think it is completely inhospitable to ask guests or workers to take their shoes off and not only inhospitable but also unreasonable to ask a worker to take their shoes off while working in your house. If the thought of dirty shoes in your shower really makes you want to vomit, you need to see a psychologist or psychiatrist for your OCD. If someone were to work in my shower with dirty shoes, I'd wait until they left, then I would get the bathroom cleaner with bleach from the closet, spray it down, go do something for 10 minutes and come back and rinse it off. How hard is that? It's much better to clean up after someone than to be so rude to them as you were, OP.
Anonymous wrote:Was I being unreasonable by asking him to take off his shoes and stand on a towel while doing the work?
He was about to put his 2nd foot inside the shower when I told him that was UNACCEPTABLE!
Those are the same shoes he wears when he goes on various jobs all over the county and steps on grease, oil, gasoline and God only knows what else.![]()