My fiance cheated on me. We broke up. I think she did it because she didn't want to get married. Anyway, we actually remained friends, and she cheated on her husband with me. That was years ago. She is remarried now, husband #2. Seems like a good guy. I wish her well. No ill will.

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Anonymous wrote:Since this thread needs more men in it, I'll post. No, I have not been cheated on (to my knowledge) but I can say with 100% assurance that if I was cheated on there would be no second chances or attempts to work things out. It would be immediately over.

Good for you because most I know who stayed never trusted or felt the same way about their partner again.

PP here. And this is exactly why I'd leave. How could you ever trust again? And without that...well that's not the way I'd want to live.

Anonymous wrote:Since this thread needs more men in it, I'll post. No, I have not been cheated on (to my knowledge) but I can say with 100% assurance that if I was cheated on there would be no second chances or attempts to work things out. It would be immediately over.

Good for you because most I know who stayed never trusted or felt the same way about their partner again.

Since this thread needs more men in it, I'll post. No, I have not been cheated on (to my knowledge) but I can say with 100% assurance that if I was cheated on there would be no second chances or attempts to work things out. It would be immediately over.

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Anonymous wrote:i predict a short thread. It just doesn't happen very often.
Women just aren't that interested or motivate for sex.

+100 more interested in money vs sex.

As a woman, heck yes. That and my children's future and grand-kid's because they are for life. A man has a shelf life due to cheating, divorce or death.

Sex doesn't come near to those priorities. Not even in the ballpark imo.

Glad I'm not your husband.

Glad I'm not your wife or kid.