OP, you need to respect yourself more than this. You deserve better.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I get that it's hard, but you need to break up. You gave him a second chance and his response was to lie and cheat some more. If the initial issue didn't tell you what kind of person he is, his response to the second chance should.

+ 1 million

You need therapy to figure out why you are accepting this. It's a horrible way to live.

+1

You've said it was lunch, happy hour and dinner. Which is it?

And you refer to the other person as a girl but then as a woman lawyer. Hard to be both since people don't graduate from law school until 25 at the earliest and anyone who could be of professional help is not a first year lawyer so this lawyer must be 30-35 and therefore not a "girl". If he is meeting a girl (under 18 years old) then I don't believe the woman lawyer story.

Anonymous wrote:OP, I get that it's hard, but you need to break up. You gave him a second chance and his response was to lie and cheat some more. If the initial issue didn't tell you what kind of person he is, his response to the second chance should.

+ 1 million

You need therapy to figure out why you are accepting this. It's a horrible way to live.

You don't need him and you can't fix him. Time to block his calls.