Anonymous wrote:There are good studies to show if a harness vs. HBB vs. LBB are safest in kids older than 4. Best practices is to keep a child harnessed till 5-7. (We just stopped at 6.5 for a variety of reasons including I did not like the harness fit on some of our seats). Common sense is go go for a HBB next as it keeps kids in position and provides them with support, especially for sleeping. It is fine to use a latch or non-latch as the seatbelt keeps them in place. Latch is best for when car seat is not in use. There are no studies (we have one latch and 3 non latch HBB. the non latch have a better fit). If your child is not comfortable in a seat, then take them and get another if you can afford it vs. moving them earlier. Its one thing not to be cheap on. Don't buy a seat with future plans - we got the frontier as they advertise you can use it as a seat belt booster. It was difficult to buckle and the fit is terrible. Get what you need for when you need it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The boosters say on the box that they can be used 3/30 pounds or 4/40 pounds that doesn't mean it's legal (in some states) or safe.
A child has to be able to sit with the seatbelt fitting correctly. We have small kids, and in addition to that they were NOT mature enough for a booster at 3 or 4 years old.
We went on a cross country trip this past summer and I ended up putting my 6 year old back into his old Radian because he was literally crawling out of his seat/seatbelt while trying to get things and being silly and could not contain himself. In the Radian I knew he was contained and safe.
We never called 5 point harness "baby seats", so that's never been an issue. We switch to a booster for everyday use around 5-5.5 but the harnessed seats are still around if we need them.
Great parenting! Too lazy to teach him how to properly behave in a car. Just shove a 6-year old back in a baby seat! Yay, mom!
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Says the mom who takes their kid out of the safer seat because their kid complains. Yay mom!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The boosters say on the box that they can be used 3/30 pounds or 4/40 pounds that doesn't mean it's legal (in some states) or safe.
A child has to be able to sit with the seatbelt fitting correctly. We have small kids, and in addition to that they were NOT mature enough for a booster at 3 or 4 years old.
We went on a cross country trip this past summer and I ended up putting my 6 year old back into his old Radian because he was literally crawling out of his seat/seatbelt while trying to get things and being silly and could not contain himself. In the Radian I knew he was contained and safe.
We never called 5 point harness "baby seats", so that's never been an issue. We switch to a booster for everyday use around 5-5.5 but the harnessed seats are still around if we need them.
Great parenting! Too lazy to teach him how to properly behave in a car. Just shove a 6-year old back in a baby seat! Yay, mom!
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Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If a tractor trailer was hitting your car, would you want your 4yr old in a unlatched backless booster or a 5pt harness latched car seat?
Hahahaha!! If a tractor trailer was hitting my little car, then we would all be smushed, regardless of who was in what seat.
Absolutely not true. A 19 month old just survived a similar accident in Alaska last week. Rear-facing in a convertible carseat. People do survive accidents last time I checked.
Ummm.... A Ford-F150 is not quite the same thing as a tractor trailer. Nice try.
Anonymous wrote:The boosters say on the box that they can be used 3/30 pounds or 4/40 pounds that doesn't mean it's legal (in some states) or safe.
A child has to be able to sit with the seatbelt fitting correctly. We have small kids, and in addition to that they were NOT mature enough for a booster at 3 or 4 years old.
We went on a cross country trip this past summer and I ended up putting my 6 year old back into his old Radian because he was literally crawling out of his seat/seatbelt while trying to get things and being silly and could not contain himself. In the Radian I knew he was contained and safe.
We never called 5 point harness "baby seats", so that's never been an issue. We switch to a booster for everyday use around 5-5.5 but the harnessed seats are still around if we need them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Some of you parents (and your kids) need to grow a set of balls and parent your kids.
Neighborhood kids made fun of him as a reason to change seats? Wait until he is a teen and everyone makes fun of him for not smoking, drinking, not having sex, being a nerd doing homework etc...
And my kid whines or complains? LOL - great reason.
Yeah, I know. I suck. But sometimes you pick your battles. I've read a bunch of stuff that says the harness is safer, but you're talking .5% safer versus 20% safer. It's not like I'm throwing my kid in the back of a pickup truck. He meets the height/weight requirements of a backless booster. So I caved and I'll also encourage him to be a method addict.
Why do you keep talking about harnesses? High back boosters don't have harnesses. I think you misread OP's post. Does your booster have a back on it? If so it is not a backless booster.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have an 11 yo. None of her friends have used boosters for years. An 11 yo in a booster?!?!?!
I have seen 4 and 5 yos in backless boosters in our preschool car line. It's not uncommon.
I know what a backless booster is. My DD got one on her fourth birthday. It is not comfortable when she falls asleep but she would not stay in her 5 harness seat. Her older sister doesn't use one as well. I read all the instructions and she was good to go on the age and weight limits. I don't understand why that would put me in the "troll" category.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If a tractor trailer was hitting your car, would you want your 4yr old in a unlatched backless booster or a 5pt harness latched car seat?
Hahahaha!! If a tractor trailer was hitting my little car, then we would all be smushed, regardless of who was in what seat.
Absolutely not true. A 19 month old just survived a similar accident in Alaska last week. Rear-facing in a convertible carseat. People do survive accidents last time I checked.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If a tractor trailer was hitting your car, would you want your 4yr old in a unlatched backless booster or a 5pt harness latched car seat?
Hahahaha!! If a tractor trailer was hitting my little car, then we would all be smushed, regardless of who was in what seat.
Anonymous wrote:If a tractor trailer was hitting your car, would you want your 4yr old in a unlatched backless booster or a 5pt harness latched car seat?