Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Oh, OP. You are paying reeealllly close attention to this. Really, really close attention. Isn't there something else you can do with your time? Your kid is fine.
Is there not something better you could do with your time? Without all of the relevant background information, I don't see how you can make such an abrasive comment. Life is not fair. My kid knows that. She's also learning there will always be people like you, people who just haven't figured out how to disagree respectfully. I haven't asked for special treatment. My kid is one of the favored kids, if you must know. It's so blatantly biased that it needs to be addressed.
For the person who mentioned experiencing the same thing in another country, thank you. The teacher is not Amercan-trained, and I've tried to understand how/why she does things the way she does.
I'm the poster from another country. The idea of student privacy of their grades and effort etc is much less present outside the U.S. So it may not even occur to the teacher that that's expected here. If it's done right and without emphasis on the shame but with emphasis on what kinds of mistakes can and were made and how to learn from that it can be an effective technique. It's just hard to apply here especially in a competitive environment where the concept is that every kid is competing with all the other kids instead of every kid in the class working together to get the whole class to be better. In my country ES kids were all in the same class cohort for grades 1-8 so you knew those kids really well and you compete with the other same grade level classes for many years and it was class pride to get everyone to do well so peer pressure worked towards that. It definitely wasn't all pretty all the time and there were kids who were hurt by this but it made sense overall and made the bonds between students that much stronger.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not about fair. It's about sharing student info that is no one else's business. Are you okay with your child's entire class along with their parents knowing your kids every grade?
Yup. I was humiliated every week of tenth grade after our spelling tests when the scores were announced. Everyone except I got an A or a high B. I usually got a D. I really studied. Every week. I still can't spell but even then I knew that well presented work mattered. I was an excellent student with an issue that wasn't anyone's business and it was mortifying to hear about my failure out loud. Every week.
Part of the problem here was spelling tests in 10th grade. What kind of school was this?
Elite private. And FWIW: my son has spelling tests in 10th now (well-regarded public, honors class). It is part of learning how English is constructed (Greek roots, latin roots, Norman conquest). As when I was a kid, definitions were also tested.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How does this differ from having kids work out problems in a board in front of the class? In those situations feedback is given if the answer is wrong.
That went out of popularity in my district a long time ago. The snowflakes were embarassed.
Aww. Too embarrassed.
Yet in other countries it is used to help students, and help the class collaborate and encourage each other.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How does this differ from having kids work out problems in a board in front of the class? In those situations feedback is given if the answer is wrong.
That went out of popularity in my district a long time ago. The snowflakes were embarassed.
Anonymous wrote:How does this differ from having kids work out problems in a board in front of the class? In those situations feedback is given if the answer is wrong.
Anonymous wrote:Your child's teacher is violating FERPA (Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act.) If she doesn't get that, the next step is to contact the principal and after that, the school district's general counsel.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not about fair. It's about sharing student info that is no one else's business. Are you okay with your child's entire class along with their parents knowing your kids every grade?
Yup. I was humiliated every week of tenth grade after our spelling tests when the scores were announced. Everyone except I got an A or a high B. I usually got a D. I really studied. Every week. I still can't spell but even then I knew that well presented work mattered. I was an excellent student with an issue that wasn't anyone's business and it was mortifying to hear about my failure out loud. Every week.
Part of the problem here was spelling tests in 10th grade. What kind of school was this?
Anonymous wrote:We definitely can't use their SINs at all and I agree that kids might eventually recognize a random number I've assigned them. Since we are required to post student work on our hallway bulletin boards, this is an issue we have to figure out. Luckily my principal is too busy with everything else to make this an issue but I'm sure the time will come.