Can you record her? Im not sure of the legality, but it seems like it would help.

Document. Take pictures of your bruises. Record her hitting you. Get a lawyer.

Anonymous wrote:She's been at it all week. I can't see but can feel the bruises on my ribs. Tonite she threw a piece of rotten fruit at me demanding to know why I bought it. She is a sick sick woman. I would love to divorce her, but that means paying for two households I cannot afford (unless I can get a court order for her to pay the mortgage), plus she threatens to accuse me of abusing my children. I feel lost. It is us a shitty situation all around.

I don't know why but I can't stop laughing at this

Anonymous wrote:She's been at it all week. I can't see but can feel the bruises on my ribs. Tonite she threw a piece of rotten fruit at me demanding to know why I bought it. She is a sick sick woman. I would love to divorce her, but that means paying for two households I cannot afford (unless I can get a court order for her to pay the mortgage), plus she threatens to accuse me of abusing my children. I feel lost. It is us a shitty situation all around.

I don't know how this works but there has to be more than just an accusation, right? How old are they?

Are there states in which alimony is off the table if there has been abuse?

Worry about the money later, OP. Divorce her. Nobody deserves this.

No advice for OP? You need to get a PO and kick your wife to the curb. Let her fend for herself.

She's been at it all week. I can't see but can feel the bruises on my ribs. Tonite she threw a piece of rotten fruit at me demanding to know why I bought it. She is a sick sick woman. I would love to divorce her, but that means paying for two households I cannot afford (unless I can get a court order for her to pay the mortgage), plus she threatens to accuse me of abusing my children. I feel lost. It is us a shitty situation all around.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh please, this post has MRA troll written all over it.

OK. Let's not believe someone b/c they're male.

Actually, it has more to do with it being one week and four pages, yet OP is nowhere to be found. Team "I Call Troll."

But continuing to be naive is certainly your right.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you deserve it. Maybe you aren't listening. Some people just look hittable.

You're despicable. Would you say the same thing if a woman were saying her husband hits her.

Anonymous wrote:I honestly can't see a man divorcing a wife for her hitting him. Not saying it's eighth. Just saying I can't see it. Men react very differently to situations than women.

You may be right. But should it be that way? I don't think violence in any relationship is cool.