Anonymous wrote:There was a hard quota against Jew. There is no hard quota against Asians. Stop trying to equate the situations.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
If these colleges didn't put such a high burden on Asian Amer. students, then maybe they wouldn't prep as much. I don't know. Seems to me that people who judge others for wanting to work hard and get ahead are either hypocritical or jealous.
It's the parents, not colleges.
Parents view a top college as end-all, be all. They punish kids for grades below A, yell and beat them, and not just abroad, but in this country also.
The fetishization of name brands--many people are guilty of this.
Right, but not to the extent of abuse that drives Asian kids to depression and suicide.
Maybe they are depressed because they are discriminated against in college admissions and have much higher standards than other groups. This can be depressing when the goal post keeps moving.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There was a hard quota against Jew. There is no hard quota against Asians. Stop trying to equate the situations.
Thank you! +100
http://www.theamericanconservative.com/articles/the-myth-of-american-meritocracy/
This Jewish scholar disagree. He thinks the Asian quota is just as insidious as the Jewish quota after the hard limit was removed. Guess who he thinks are the beneficiaries, not the URMs, but the white Jewish student, Interestly, the white non-jewish students are hurt almost as much as the Asian students.
I am not a conservative. But this is the best article on this issue I read.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There was a hard quota against Jew. There is no hard quota against Asians. Stop trying to equate the situations.
Thank you! +100
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
If these colleges didn't put such a high burden on Asian Amer. students, then maybe they wouldn't prep as much. I don't know. Seems to me that people who judge others for wanting to work hard and get ahead are either hypocritical or jealous.
It's the parents, not colleges.
Parents view a top college as end-all, be all. They punish kids for grades below A, yell and beat them, and not just abroad, but in this country also.
The fetishization of name brands--many people are guilty of this.
Right, but not to the extent of abuse that drives Asian kids to depression and suicide.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
If these colleges didn't put such a high burden on Asian Amer. students, then maybe they wouldn't prep as much. I don't know. Seems to me that people who judge others for wanting to work hard and get ahead are either hypocritical or jealous.
It's the parents, not colleges.
Parents view a top college as end-all, be all. They punish kids for grades below A, yell and beat them, and not just abroad, but in this country also.
The fetishization of name brands--many people are guilty of this.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There is a widespread perception, which may be unfair, that Asian-Americans have an unhealthy fixation with going to prestigious colleges and are are spending an inordinate amount of time and resources prepping their children for standardized tests, doing excessively large numbers of extra curriculars, not for enjoyment or personal growth, but for the purpose of impressing admissions, resulting in unrealistically high entrances stats.
Again, this is the perception, not necessarily the reality, but this has created a situation where admissions are skeptical of scores coming from Asian-Americans.
Unfortunately, this stereotype hurts poorer Asian immigrants, particular ones from countries that don't have super competitive education systems. They get lumped in with the stereotypical "Asian Math Geniuses/Tiger Moms" from middle/upper-middle class backgrounds.
I think a similar issue happens to African Americans. Most colleges will accept AAs with lower stats than other races, with the assumption that they must be from impoverished backgrounds and "didn't have a father in the household," etc. But a disproportionately large proportion of the AAs that benefit from this are the middle-class AAs, or the children of immigrants from Caribbean nations, or from Africa itself -- all of whom tend to be better-off socioeconomically than the average AA. The truly poor AAs, the intended beneficiaries, don't benefit as often, and are far more likely to go to community colleges, where they will typically drop-out after a semester or two.
Every Indian I know is obsessed with TJ. I think this is more reality than just perception. There needs to be limits on Asian Americans, so other cultures that do not have the hyper competitive focused parents have opportunities.
Places like these - TJ, Harvard, etc.. - are competitive. If you cannot handle the competitiveness, I don't see why you should be allowed in. It's not 1st grade. Not every kid gets a trophy for showing up. And I don't think it's always just the parents that want the kids to get into these schools. Some kids want it, too. No, I'm not projecting. I don't push my kids to get into these types of schools.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There is a widespread perception, which may be unfair, that Asian-Americans have an unhealthy fixation with going to prestigious colleges and are are spending an inordinate amount of time and resources prepping their children for standardized tests, doing excessively large numbers of extra curriculars, not for enjoyment or personal growth, but for the purpose of impressing admissions, resulting in unrealistically high entrances stats.
Again, this is the perception, not necessarily the reality, but this has created a situation where admissions are skeptical of scores coming from Asian-Americans.
Unfortunately, this stereotype hurts poorer Asian immigrants, particular ones from countries that don't have super competitive education systems. They get lumped in with the stereotypical "Asian Math Geniuses/Tiger Moms" from middle/upper-middle class backgrounds.
I think a similar issue happens to African Americans. Most colleges will accept AAs with lower stats than other races, with the assumption that they must be from impoverished backgrounds and "didn't have a father in the household," etc. But a disproportionately large proportion of the AAs that benefit from this are the middle-class AAs, or the children of immigrants from Caribbean nations, or from Africa itself -- all of whom tend to be better-off socioeconomically than the average AA. The truly poor AAs, the intended beneficiaries, don't benefit as often, and are far more likely to go to community colleges, where they will typically drop-out after a semester or two.
Every Indian I know is obsessed with TJ. I think this is more reality than just perception. There needs to be limits on Asian Americans, so other cultures that do not have the hyper competitive focused parents have opportunities.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
If these colleges didn't put such a high burden on Asian Amer. students, then maybe they wouldn't prep as much. I don't know. Seems to me that people who judge others for wanting to work hard and get ahead are either hypocritical or jealous.
It's the parents, not colleges.
Parents view a top college as end-all, be all. They punish kids for grades below A, yell and beat them, and not just abroad, but in this country also.
The fetishization of name brands--many people are guilty of this.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
If these colleges didn't put such a high burden on Asian Amer. students, then maybe they wouldn't prep as much. I don't know. Seems to me that people who judge others for wanting to work hard and get ahead are either hypocritical or jealous.
It's the parents, not colleges.
Parents view a top college as end-all, be all. They punish kids for grades below A, yell and beat them, and not just abroad, but in this country also.
Anonymous wrote:There is a widespread perception, which may be unfair, that Asian-Americans have an unhealthy fixation with going to prestigious colleges and are are spending an inordinate amount of time and resources prepping their children for standardized tests, doing excessively large numbers of extra curriculars, not for enjoyment or personal growth, but for the purpose of impressing admissions, resulting in unrealistically high entrances stats.
Again, this is the perception, not necessarily the reality, but this has created a situation where admissions are skeptical of scores coming from Asian-Americans.
Unfortunately, this stereotype hurts poorer Asian immigrants, particular ones from countries that don't have super competitive education systems. They get lumped in with the stereotypical "Asian Math Geniuses/Tiger Moms" from middle/upper-middle class backgrounds.
I think a similar issue happens to African Americans. Most colleges will accept AAs with lower stats than other races, with the assumption that they must be from impoverished backgrounds and "didn't have a father in the household," etc. But a disproportionately large proportion of the AAs that benefit from this are the middle-class AAs, or the children of immigrants from Caribbean nations, or from Africa itself -- all of whom tend to be better-off socioeconomically than the average AA. The truly poor AAs, the intended beneficiaries, don't benefit as often, and are far more likely to go to community colleges, where they will typically drop-out after a semester or two.