Do you have kids?

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Anonymous wrote:seriously, names. what sorts of names do the other dancers actually have, and what sorts of names are chosen as stage names?

Anonymity (or near-anonymity) is invaluable. No potentially personally identifiable info, sorry!

that is why I said "sorts of" names. If you read the name threads on this site you'll see that the issue of what is or isn't a "stripper name" comes up often. There is a fear among the middle class that giving your kid the wrong name will doom them to a career like stripping. The most useful thread we ever had on it was one where someone had recently been at a strip club and posted the list of stage names and instead of being what's commonly ID'd here as "stripper names" it was girl-next-door stuff like Amanda. That's all we're asking. Nobody is asking for your or anyone else's PII.

Anonymous wrote:Would you want your DD to follow in your footsteps?

And would your answer be different about your DS?

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Anonymous wrote:seriously, names. what sorts of names do the other dancers actually have, and what sorts of names are chosen as stage names?

Anonymity (or near-anonymity) is invaluable. No potentially personally identifiable info, sorry!

What we want to know is whether the women have "stripper names" (in real life, or as stage names). That is all.

I answered this earlier in the thread, but yes, all dancers have stripper names. It is an issue of safety. No one at work knows my real name (save for the hiring manager - you put your real name on the application, of course).

What are your measurements and weight and height?

Do you spray tan?

Does your DH ever come to your club?

Has stripping (and the attention from men) made you feel sexually charged and thereby improved your sex life?

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Anonymous wrote:seriously, names. what sorts of names do the other dancers actually have, and what sorts of names are chosen as stage names?

Anonymity (or near-anonymity) is invaluable. No potentially personally identifiable info, sorry!

What we want to know is whether the women have "stripper names" (in real life, or as stage names). That is all.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you read Sheryl Sandberg's Leaning In? How would you say it applies to stripping?

I did not. I think the whole WOHM v SAHM "debate" is a farce that only keeps women from progressing. That said, many women I work with would have NO WAY to earn what they do in a so-called straight job, and I think it's anti feminist to shame women for leveraging the resources they do have to make money.

This is actually a pretty awesome response.

Anonymous wrote:Are you shaved?

Waxed.

Anonymous wrote:Did you read Sheryl Sandberg's Leaning In? How would you say it applies to stripping?

Anonymous wrote:seriously, names. what sorts of names do the other dancers actually have, and what sorts of names are chosen as stage names?

Anonymity (or near-anonymity) is invaluable. No potentially personally identifiable info, sorry!

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Anonymous wrote:Did you have to interview for your job? If so, what was that process like?

I did. Chatted with management for a few minutes, danced, got the job. If you look decent, and are not an obvious psycho/addict, you have the job.

Did you have to learn to dance or did you just wing it?

You learn as you go. I'm naturally graceful and athletic, and have (non-nude) dancing in my background. It's not rocket science!

Anonymous wrote:Is it a fully nude place you work?

No, topless.

Anonymous wrote:How do you expect to find professional full time work with a gap in your resume, assuming that you won't write down "stripper" on your resume?

I have a part-time volunteer position relevant to my field.