Anonymous wrote:Reading the thread on low-sex marriages where one woman responded that her husband hadn't showered in 11 days, which is beyond disgusting, it got me thinking how often most people shower or bathe. For me, a male and DH, I shower most days 2x (morning and before bed) and sometimes a 3rd if during the mid-day I've worked. Meanwhile, my DW is more of any every other day type person. The downside to that is that since she will only have sex when she's clean, this reduces available days by 50%. In answering, please identify yourself as male or female.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I hate showering. Actually, I just hate being wet afterwards.
Always after I work out, but usually that averages out to every other day.
I hate being wet afterwards too! My hair takes forever to dry, and I can't use a blow dryer. I have curly hair, which looks best air dried. Only when I lived in Arizona did I shower every day/several times a day depending on the weather. Here I shower daily during hot weather otherwise substantially less. Once a week is normal for me during the winter.
are you sure you heard her right? The black folk I know (I am) are clean and could not imagine not bathing daily. Our hair tends to be dry and I wash it twice weekly.Anonymous wrote:I am a Female and I shower every day. In the morning after I wake up. I just feel like I need to have a fresh start to every day plus it helps me wake up since I do not drink coffee.
If I have a date later on in the evening, I may wait to shower before my date or take another shower if I worked that day.
I love love being clean and feeling fresh. I also love the body wash, lotion and spray that I use. I love how it makes me smell, I feel pretty and get lots of compliments that I smell "fresh" after using them.
I know there was a debate a few months back when Naya Riveria from "The View" stated that taking a daily shower was a "white girl thing." That set off all the experts and the consensus amongst them was that daily showering was not needed.
They cited that the body needs to let its natural oils come to the surface and blah, blah blah.
I couldn't disagree more. ALL adults should shower every day. It's healthy, it makes you feel good inside and out plus you never will have to worry about offending another person with your body odor.
Win win.
Anonymous wrote:I hate showering. Actually, I just hate being wet afterwards.
Always after I work out, but usually that averages out to every other day.
Anonymous wrote:once a day... like EVERYONE should.