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Anonymous wrote:The children described in these articles are older children. Are the rules different for PK3 and PK4 kids who have not yet reached the age at which school is mandatory?

I've taken my PK kid out numerous times for vacation - no one cares at our DCPS.

My 3yo missed a week of school to travel to a family wedding, and even though we notified them in advance, we were contacted by the school social worker.

Really?? Was this recently? It contradicts what other PPs have said about the 10-day rule not going into effect until K. Worried, since my child in PK3 will miss a week of school later this month for vacation (vacation was planned almost a year ago, before we knew we were definitely switching from daycare to DCPS).

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Anonymous wrote:She shouldn't have taken him out of school for so long. This wasn't an extra day off to go skiing. This was 20 days, and she should have made other arrangements.

Disagree. He learned more about himself on this trip at a core level than any school in America can ever teach him. He bonded with his new brother in a way that being kept at home with someone (who the single mother didn't have access to) wouldn't have allowed.

He basically got homeschooled for a little under a month, while he explored his roots.

What he supposedly "learned" is beside the point - and obviously, DCPS doesn't agree that this trip counted as "education".

The rules are well known and exist for a reason. If she wants to give him "educational" overseas travel, she should schedule it during the summer.

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Anonymous wrote:She shouldn't have taken him out of school for so long. This wasn't an extra day off to go skiing. This was 20 days, and she should have made other arrangements.

Disagree. He learned more about himself on this trip at a core level than any school in America can ever teach him. He bonded with his new brother in a way that being kept at home with someone (who the single mother didn't have access to) wouldn't have allowed.

He basically got homeschooled for a little under a month, while he explored his roots.

What he supposedly "learned" is beside the point - and obviously, DCPS doesn't agree that this trip counted as "education".

The rules are well known and exist for a reason. If she wants to give him "educational" overseas travel, she should schedule it during the summer.

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if this strategy would have worked for the woman in the article, but I would like to remind everyone that in DC parents have the right to homeschool (and travelschool).

If you plan to pull your child out of school for an extended trip, and you attend your DCPS by right, just notify OSSE of you intent to homeschool at least 15 days prior to withdrawing your child using the following form:

http://osse.dc.gov/sites/default/files/dc/sites/osse/publication/attachments/District%20of%20Columbia%20%20Homeschool%20Notification%20Form_0.pdf

Do your best to keep your child caught up with whatever his classmates will be learning while you are away, and when you get back, re-enroll your child in DCPS.

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Anonymous wrote:She shouldn't have taken him out of school for so long. This wasn't an extra day off to go skiing. This was 20 days, and she should have made other arrangements.

Disagree. He learned more about himself on this trip at a core level than any school in America can ever teach him. He bonded with his new brother in a way that being kept at home with someone (who the single mother didn't have access to) wouldn't have allowed.

He basically got homeschooled for a little under a month, while he explored his roots.

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Anonymous wrote:OSSE should go after the legions of parents in high at-risk population schools in wards 7 and 8 who bring their kids 2-3 hours late to school, if at all, and rack up 30-40 absences, or more, each year. A few miles but worlds away from Brent on the Hill. Those kids are struggling mightily just to read at basic levels and the govt turns a blind eye so when a white single mom collects the classwork and emails the principal in advance of her second international adoption, THIS is a tragedy worthy of our court system? and the guns go firing. So backwards, DC and OSSE. The net that failed Relisha Rudd isn't doing any better to protect kids when these sorts of stories come out - and the true stories of homeless, neglected, poor children missing large percentages of school years remain untold.

Special privileges for white people, I get it

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Anonymous wrote:I don't have any problem with automatic CFSA referrals when a kid misses a certain number of days. Attendance is important, and absences cause problems for kids and their schools. Truancy can indicate abuse or neglect and I'd rather have CFSA look into everything than let schools use their discretion--because if they have discretion, they're going to look more at poor and black families, when they're not the only ones who can be struggling (I'm thinking of a friend whose white, wealthy mom had a bout of psychosis and abandoned her for several weeks when she was in middle school).

In this case, though, the principal screwed up by reporting an excused absence, and it doesn't sound like the child had any neglect, educational or otherwise (he did all his assignments while abroad). No idea why criminal charges were brought.

But one other thing: the lady in the article now has 2 kids, one who was recently adopted from an institutional setting, and no job.

a) wish I had enough money for 2 international adoptions and raising 2 kids with no income.

b) she does not sound like she has any support network for what could be a challenging parenting experience. While jail is clearly not the solution, I hope she works on making connections to help her care for her kids in more mundane crises--like if she needs to go to the ER, car breaks down, that sort of thing.

You have no idea what sort of support system she has within the community and are a pretty much a shitty excise fro s human being to pass judgmet im this manner. I wouldn't be comfortable leaving my child with even my closest friend for a month while I traveled to Mongolia or, for that matter, Chicago. Having a neighbor or friend watch your child because you have to spend the night at the ER is a different story entirely. This was obviously a trip of a lifetime for a Second Grader.

The article says she's a single mom for whom going to jail would be disastrous and had nowhere to leave her kid when she traveled. It would be improper for CFSA not to consider her support network--doesn't mean she should be imprisoned or have kids removed, but they could offer services. If she were applying to be a foster parent or adopting from US foster care, they would definitely be asking about these things.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't have any problem with automatic CFSA referrals when a kid misses a certain number of days. Attendance is important, and absences cause problems for kids and their schools. Truancy can indicate abuse or neglect and I'd rather have CFSA look into everything than let schools use their discretion--because if they have discretion, they're going to look more at poor and black families, when they're not the only ones who can be struggling (I'm thinking of a friend whose white, wealthy mom had a bout of psychosis and abandoned her for several weeks when she was in middle school).

In this case, though, the principal screwed up by reporting an excused absence, and it doesn't sound like the child had any neglect, educational or otherwise (he did all his assignments while abroad). No idea why criminal charges were brought.

But one other thing: the lady in the article now has 2 kids, one who was recently adopted from an institutional setting, and no job.

a) wish I had enough money for 2 international adoptions and raising 2 kids with no income.

b) she does not sound like she has any support network for what could be a challenging parenting experience. While jail is clearly not the solution, I hope she works on making connections to help her care for her kids in more mundane crises--like if she needs to go to the ER, car breaks down, that sort of thing.

You have no idea what sort of support system she has within the community and are a pretty much a shitty excise fro s human being to pass judgmet im this manner. I wouldn't be comfortable leaving my child with even my closest friend for a month while I traveled to Mongolia or, for that matter, Chicago. Having a neighbor or friend watch your child because you have to spend the night at the ER is a different story entirely. This was obviously a trip of a lifetime for a Second Grader.

Yea, the government is not going to let her leave her kids with a family friend while she is in jail - family only.

The article says she's a single mom for whom going to jail would be disastrous and had nowhere to leave her kid when she traveled. It would be improper for CFSA not to consider her support network--doesn't mean she should be imprisoned or have kids removed, but they could offer services. If she were applying to be a foster parent or adopting from US foster care, they would definitely be asking about these things.

Anonymous wrote:I don't have any problem with automatic CFSA referrals when a kid misses a certain number of days. Attendance is important, and absences cause problems for kids and their schools. Truancy can indicate abuse or neglect and I'd rather have CFSA look into everything than let schools use their discretion--because if they have discretion, they're going to look more at poor and black families, when they're not the only ones who can be struggling (I'm thinking of a friend whose white, wealthy mom had a bout of psychosis and abandoned her for several weeks when she was in middle school).

In this case, though, the principal screwed up by reporting an excused absence, and it doesn't sound like the child had any neglect, educational or otherwise (he did all his assignments while abroad). No idea why criminal charges were brought.

But one other thing: the lady in the article now has 2 kids, one who was recently adopted from an institutional setting, and no job.

a) wish I had enough money for 2 international adoptions and raising 2 kids with no income.

b) she does not sound like she has any support network for what could be a challenging parenting experience. While jail is clearly not the solution, I hope she works on making connections to help her care for her kids in more mundane crises--like if she needs to go to the ER, car breaks down, that sort of thing.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't have any problem with automatic CFSA referrals when a kid misses a certain number of days. Attendance is important, and absences cause problems for kids and their schools. Truancy can indicate abuse or neglect and I'd rather have CFSA look into everything than let schools use their discretion--because if they have discretion, they're going to look more at poor and black families, when they're not the only ones who can be struggling (I'm thinking of a friend whose white, wealthy mom had a bout of psychosis and abandoned her for several weeks when she was in middle school).

In this case, though, the principal screwed up by reporting an excused absence, and it doesn't sound like the child had any neglect, educational or otherwise (he did all his assignments while abroad). No idea why criminal charges were brought.

But one other thing: the lady in the article now has 2 kids, one who was recently adopted from an institutional setting, and no job.

a) wish I had enough money for 2 international adoptions and raising 2 kids with no income.

b) she does not sound like she has any support network for what could be a challenging parenting experience. While jail is clearly not the solution, I hope she works on making connections to help her care for her kids in more mundane crises--like if she needs to go to the ER, car breaks down, that sort of thing.

You have no idea what sort of support system she has within the community and are a pretty much a shitty excise fro s human being to pass judgmet im this manner. I wouldn't be comfortable leaving my child with even my closest friend for a month while I traveled to Mongolia or, for that matter, Chicago. Having a neighbor or friend watch your child because you have to spend the night at the ER is a different story entirely. This was obviously a trip of a lifetime for a Second Grader.