Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That's life, op. Your dd had some advantages in life, this girl just has a few more. You'd be better off teaching your dd to gracefully handle competition than focusing on the advantages this girl has. Life isn't fair.
Yup.
Think of it this way. In college, your dd will likely have a better ability to handle the class load, while this girl may falter without hand holding.
Out valedictorian 20 years ago cracked under the pressure of the college she busted her butt to go to and is now not using her education at all.