Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the choice argument only works if these families could move to lower cost of living areas and still make that much. That usually isn't the case.
The vast majority of families living in expensive DC, Bethesda, Chevy Chase or Arlington neighborhoods and complaining about cost of living, could move to Silver Spring, or PG County, or Burke and continue to work at the same jobs, and have the same income.
The PP was right. Short commutes, high scoring public schools, "walkable communities", these are luxuries. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have them, but they're expensive luxuries. If you're paying for them, and not making major sacrifices elsewhere, you probably aren't middle class.
Anonymous wrote:I think that's incredibly depressing, although accurate for this area. Luxuries should be things like affording a cleaning service, driving a Lexus, taking a vacation to Europe every summer, owning a beach house, etc. Being able to send your kids to a good school (not necessarily a 10 on great schools, but one with decent test scores and not a high percentage of ESOL students) and living within 30 minutes of your job shouldn't be just for the upper middle class.
I agree with you 100%. I grew up in a mid-sized town and "luxuries" like good schools and decent commutes were normal amenities for the middle class. There are benefits to living in a place like DC, for example a lot of jobs and exposure to different cultures, but people in the middle class here do not live as well as people in the middle class in other, less expensive areas.
I hear this a lot on this website. I have lived in five different cities in my life--DC, one in the midwest, two on the West Coast, and one in Texas. In every one of these cities, the areas that had short commutes that also were zoned for what were considered good schools have been expensive--at least relative to the cost of the rest of the city. Of course the cost of living varies--but so do the wages.
My in-laws live in a rural area. They consider themselves middle class--by the standards of this website they would be considered lower income, but by the standards of median income/income percentile, they are solidly in the middle of the income distribution. They didn't really think about what schools are "good" or not. They just sent DH and his sisters to the school they were zoned for. It isn't like there is a whole lot of choice in rural areas. Parents don't pour over greatschools ratings or buy real estate based on school zones--it's just not something that crosses people's mind. My SIL lives in another town about an hour away from where they grew up, and also takes this approach to her kids' schools.
Where exactly are these areas where people "live so much better?"
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, in NW DC it is middle class. That's reality.
You're deluded.
I think she's right. I don't know anyone here who doesn't make at least $200k.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, in NW DC it is middle class. That's reality.
You're deluded.
Anonymous wrote:OK. As soon as our friends on the left stop taxing households that make $!00K or $!50K as the "wealthy."
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:200k and can't afford a house I'd actually want to live in. I consider us solidly middle class.
And I expect you are typical of people who think they're middle class when they are clearly not. It's not enough to own a home, you have to own the perfect home, with at least one more bedroom than you need, a kitchen updated in the last 5 years to your exacting tastes, the right location, the right schools, etc etc etc.
Middle class means you compromise and you do without. Kids share a bedroom. The kitchen is 15 years old or more. The floors are carpeted, and the bathrooms look like your grandmas. And you live with that because you have other financial priorities - and you simply can't afford to renovate.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the choice argument only works if these families could move to lower cost of living areas and still make that much. That usually isn't the case.
The vast majority of families living in expensive DC, Bethesda, Chevy Chase or Arlington neighborhoods and complaining about cost of living, could move to Silver Spring, or PG County, or Burke and continue to work at the same jobs, and have the same income.
The PP was right. Short commutes, high scoring public schools, "walkable communities", these are luxuries. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have them, but they're expensive luxuries. If you're paying for them, and not making major sacrifices elsewhere, you probably aren't middle class.
Anonymous wrote:OK. As soon as our friends on the left stop taxing households that make $!00K or $!50K as the "wealthy."
Anonymous wrote:200k and can't afford a house I'd actually want to live in. I consider us solidly middle class.
I think that's incredibly depressing, although accurate for this area. Luxuries should be things like affording a cleaning service, driving a Lexus, taking a vacation to Europe every summer, owning a beach house, etc. Being able to send your kids to a good school (not necessarily a 10 on great schools, but one with decent test scores and not a high percentage of ESOL students) and living within 30 minutes of your job shouldn't be just for the upper middle class.
I agree with you 100%. I grew up in a mid-sized town and "luxuries" like good schools and decent commutes were normal amenities for the middle class. There are benefits to living in a place like DC, for example a lot of jobs and exposure to different cultures, but people in the middle class here do not live as well as people in the middle class in other, less expensive areas.
Anonymous wrote:Plenty of people with 200k HHI can't afford to live in these areas with "amenities" due to factors like student loans, child care, and having to break into the real estate market post-bubble. A 200k household with $500/month in student loans and two kids in daycare and a first home bought post-2011 or so is probably much more "middle class" than a household with the same income, no loans, a house bought pre-bubble, and kids who are out of daycare.
That's not to say that the first household won't eventually break into upper middle class, but I don't think it's entirely unreasonable that younger households feel strapped on that income.
DH and I both make about 100k, which is decent for this area, but not anything unusual. If we moved to Boise, ID we'd probably make decent salaries for Idaho, but I doubt we'd be rich. Middle class is all relative based on the metro area you live in and the extent of your school debt/how long ago you bought your first home.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the choice argument only works if these families could move to lower cost of living areas and still make that much. That usually isn't the case.
The vast majority of families living in expensive DC, Bethesda, Chevy Chase or Arlington neighborhoods and complaining about cost of living, could move to Silver Spring, or PG County, or Burke and continue to work at the same jobs, and have the same income.
The PP was right. Short commutes, high scoring public schools, "walkable communities", these are luxuries. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have them, but they're expensive luxuries. If you're paying for them, and not making major sacrifices elsewhere, you probably aren't middle class.