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Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

WTF? How did this enter the conversation?

Read the OP again. The refrence to her actually enjoying being woken up to sex with her DH has sent some of these prudes into an emotional death spiral.

It's not about prudery. It's about biology. Penetration without lubrication can be painful. A woman who isn't aroused isn't properly lubricated. If I'm asleep, I'm likely to be unaroused. In the slim chance that I'm having a sex dream and lubing up AND he somehow detects this, digital penetration might possibly occur without pain, but at his length and girth, his penis would not.

Next time you're asleep, ask your wife to thrust a cucumber up your asshole and see if you enjoy it.

LOL. I'm someone who enjoys being woken up to sex. Clearly my DH does that it right because I'm dripping wet when I wake up. He starts with his fingers and gets me nice and wet before he starts to slide in. Sometimes I wake up as he starts and pretend to be sleeping. He tries to be sneaky...trying not to mobe the bed too much. Turns me on.

You sound a bit tightly wound up. I can see why this would not work for you.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

WTF? How did this enter the conversation?

Read the OP again. The refrence to her actually enjoying being woken up to sex with her DH has sent some of these prudes into an emotional death spiral.

It's not about prudery. It's about biology. Penetration without lubrication can be painful. A woman who isn't aroused isn't properly lubricated. If I'm asleep, I'm likely to be unaroused. In the slim chance that I'm having a sex dream and lubing up AND he somehow detects this, digital penetration might possibly occur without pain, but at his length and girth, his penis would not.

Next time you're asleep, ask your wife to thrust a cucumber up your asshole and see if you enjoy it.

If I'm asleep, how would ask my wife to do anything? Come on, Hun, you're better than that.

From a man's perspective, I'd love to be married to the OP. She sounds secure in her relationship and enjoys fucking her DH after he took the effort to look good for her. What's not to like?

Unfortunately my wife ignores my hard efforts to keep fit in middle age.Wish my wife were atteacted to me like the OP Is to her husband. It seems a few of you are threatened, possibly you feel more at home with the hundreds of topics about the sexual death bed many of you are sleeping in at night.

Its nice to see that there are a few women who have managed to turn their sexual relationships around.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound course and boring.

OP here. Don't you mean coarse?

Yes.

Ok. I knew you were struggling. Glad to help. Let me know if you need help with any other homophones.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound course and boring.

OP here. Don't you mean coarse?

Yes.

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound course and boring.

OP here. Don't you mean coarse?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

WTF? How did this enter the conversation?

Read the OP again. The refrence to her actually enjoying being woken up to sex with her DH has sent some of these prudes into an emotional death spiral.

It's not about prudery. It's about biology. Penetration without lubrication can be painful. A woman who isn't aroused isn't properly lubricated. If I'm asleep, I'm likely to be unaroused. In the slim chance that I'm having a sex dream and lubing up AND he somehow detects this, digital penetration might possibly occur without pain, but at his length and girth, his penis would not.

Next time you're asleep, ask your wife to thrust a cucumber up your asshole and see if you enjoy it.

How about you just respect the possibility that what you personally like and dislike isn't the same as what everyone else does. What is appropriate or not depends on the boundaries that are established in their relationship. Obviously, you shouldn't do this unless you know that she's into it. I have known women who actually REQUESTED this, so it just depends.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

WTF? How did this enter the conversation?

Read the OP again. The refrence to her actually enjoying being woken up to sex with her DH has sent some of these prudes into an emotional death spiral.

It's not about prudery. It's about biology. Penetration without lubrication can be painful. A woman who isn't aroused isn't properly lubricated. If I'm asleep, I'm likely to be unaroused. In the slim chance that I'm having a sex dream and lubing up AND he somehow detects this, digital penetration might possibly occur without pain, but at his length and girth, his penis would not.

Next time you're asleep, ask your wife to thrust a cucumber up your asshole and see if you enjoy it.

OP, you sound course and boring.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

WTF? How did this enter the conversation?

Read the OP again. The refrence to her actually enjoying being woken up to sex with her DH has sent some of these prudes into an emotional death spiral.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

WTF? How did this enter the conversation?

Read the OP again. The refrence to her actually enjoying being woken up to sex with her DH has sent some of these prudes into an emotional death spiral.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, your husband is fantasizing about your friends. Hence the increase in the sex.

OMG the critical reading skills on this forum are miserable. Have you read the OP?? She said SHE is the one driving for more sex and that her DH is thrilled by the change in her drive. One can easily read between the lines that he has alway been the high drive partner.

I say good for OP. Who doesn't want a DH who gets his fat ass in shape and becomes desireable once again? Maybe none of you ever dated, let alone married someone who is a gene pool winner.

Yes, that's why he has sex with her sleeping body. Because SHE is the one driving for more sex. Right....

It's the friends OP.

OP here. The sleep sex does not bother me. He has ALWAYS tried that in the past. The only difference is it used to piss me off, now it turns me on and I can get into it and not worry about losing sleep. And frankly, I don't get worried about his private fantasies as long as it does not involve children or animals.

I have some pretty kinky fantasies and am guilty of more than once fantasizing about having sex with different men in my life...somtime more than one at a time.

Get your panties in a wad over that, hun.

^^^you have to lack a pulse if ypu don't fantasize about other people. Do you all just think about screwing your spouse after decades of monogamy? If so, I'm sorry.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, your husband is fantasizing about your friends. Hence the increase in the sex.

OMG the critical reading skills on this forum are miserable. Have you read the OP?? She said SHE is the one driving for more sex and that her DH is thrilled by the change in her drive. One can easily read between the lines that he has alway been the high drive partner.

I say good for OP. Who doesn't want a DH who gets his fat ass in shape and becomes desireable once again? Maybe none of you ever dated, let alone married someone who is a gene pool winner.

Yes, that's why he has sex with her sleeping body. Because SHE is the one driving for more sex. Right....

It's the friends OP.

Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

WTF? How did this enter the conversation?