Anonymous wrote:I went to school with the child of an author, and I know for a fact that the author was a terrible parent. Really terrible. Author's book is one of our book club choices, and I am, for some reason, hesitant to read it. I think I'll feel guilty if I enjoy it perhaps? I think it's different that just hearing that Oprah is really mean to waiters for example in that I have personal, real-life knowledge of this particular author. Thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:Artists are often troubled in some way, and their therapy is producing art.
Do you think a perfectly sane, responsible and logistical pragmatist can create thought provoking art or writings? From where I stand, it's the more wacky ones that create something from the mess inside them. Some of the most talented fine artists and actors are/were seriously crazy.
Examples: Einstein, Martha Graham, Van Gogh, Emily Dickinson, Sophocles, Lord Byron. Two more: Dante and Nabokov - seriously, where did these guys come up with that stuff? Their writings are crazy! Because they were, too!
And I apologize if I offend anyone's sensibilities. I agree with 23:57 to a degree. You can be very involved as a parent, or take care of your art, but probably not both in one lifetime.
So my advice to the OP is try to separate your personal bias of the author from your relationship with your friend, but see the art for the art. Rather, see the author as a mutli-dimensional person who is working something out through his writing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Rapist "photographer" Terry Richardson. Makes my stomach turn. All those young children.
I thought this was who the OP was going to refer to. I have read various accounts of models who have posed for him and the things that went on were so predatory and vile. Seems like finally some magazines/editors are starting to refuse to work with him.
I wonder who still hires him.
Apparently President Obama. Google it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Rapist "photographer" Terry Richardson. Makes my stomach turn. All those young children.
I thought this was who the OP was going to refer to. I have read various accounts of models who have posed for him and the things that went on were so predatory and vile. Seems like finally some magazines/editors are starting to refuse to work with him.
I wonder who still hires him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There are predatory movie directors, politicians (both stripes), musicians, jerk movie stars..... do you dis everything that involves a person you don't like?
Funny how things have changed in 2.5 years.

Anonymous wrote:There are predatory movie directors, politicians (both stripes), musicians, jerk movie stars..... do you dis everything that involves a person you don't like?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Someone who seems to get a pass is John Lennon. The guy who wrote "Give Peace a Chance" and "All You Need is Love" had a huge ego and a violent temper. According to his son Sean, John yelled in his ear so loudly, he caused hearing damage. This was when John got frustrated while teachimg 4 y.o. Sean how to cut steak with a knife.
Learning this and other things really has put a damper on The Beatles for me.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/09/21/sean-lennon-opens-up-abou_n_128028.html
That's horrific.
Anonymous wrote:Someone who seems to get a pass is John Lennon. The guy who wrote "Give Peace a Chance" and "All You Need is Love" had a huge ego and a violent temper. According to his son Sean, John yelled in his ear so loudly, he caused hearing damage. This was when John got frustrated while teachimg 4 y.o. Sean how to cut steak with a knife.
Learning this and other things really has put a damper on The Beatles for me.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/09/21/sean-lennon-opens-up-abou_n_128028.html
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Rapist "photographer" Terry Richardson. Makes my stomach turn. All those young children.
I thought this was who the OP was going to refer to. I have read various accounts of models who have posed for him and the things that went on were so predatory and vile. Seems like finally some magazines/editors are starting to refuse to work with him.
Why isn't he in jail yet for raping all these girls? He's threatened them?