Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 22:12     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
Anonymous wrote:Damn. I think Indian men are especially hot. More for me, sounds like!


I do too! I have a big crush on Abhishek Bachchan. That man is sexy! I find most of the younger Desi men in Bollywood films extremely attractive. Unfortunately, I almost never see those types of men out in public here in DC. Now when I visit New York or Houston I see attractive Indian men all the time. I do have an Indian neighbor who is very hot. If we both weren't married, then I wouldn't mind hitting that a few times. LOL!
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 21:46     Subject: Re:Are you attracted to men of other races?
Anonymous wrote:Yes - Idris Elba. Hot!


YES INDEED!
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 21:26     Subject: Re:Are you attracted to men of other races?
Yes - Idris Elba. Hot!
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 21:12     Subject: Re:Are you attracted to men of other races?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This poster again.



LOL - I was thinking the same thing...here we go again
Is it near impossible to date attractive white women if you are a desi guy?
Where are all these young and attractive white women in interracial relationships?
Almost all interracial couples I see everywhere in the US are like this



Well, if it is that particular poster, a lot of other posters here are proving his point.


I am not that poster who seemed obsessed with the subject but as a South Asian married to another South Asian, it certainly made me aware that I have rarely met a South Asian man married to a really attractive white woman. This is not to say they are unattractive but in most cases they are at best above average though most are very average and many are overweight. Some of these guys are fairly good looking and certainly hold excellent jobs making a pretty good income.

But if they are happy and glad to have each other, what does it matter?


Well, I can't speak to South Asians, but my experience has been the opposite. My DH is east asian, I am white. While couples like us are relatively rare, I've noticed that other women I've seen and those in my own circle who are in similar relationships mostly range from above average to extremely attractive. In addition, all the ones that I know personally are well educated and well mannered.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 21:10     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
Damn. I think Indian men are especially hot. More for me, sounds like!
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 21:05     Subject: Re:Are you attracted to men of other races?
There are very few men that I have found to be drop-dead gorgeous. Attraction for me has to transcend looks.

I find some celebrities of different races drop-dead gorgeous (when they were in their early 30s) - though it is a very short list.
Indian - Some Bollywood actors
African American - Denzel Washington
Asian - Russell Wong
Latin - Antonio Banderas
White - Paul Newman



Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 21:01     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
AA woman here. Attracted and have dated all races. My type is tall, slim, and cute and with a goatee. I wish more men of other races wore goatees. The Asian and white guys I dated had them and it's such a nice, masculine look. I don't like a bare face on any man. I used to date about 50/50 Black and Latino men when I was younger. I date more Black men than anything now lately. I have been told I prefer caramel men.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 20:45     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm white and attracted to white and black men, but recently found out something about Eastern Asian men attracts me. Like Ichiro Suzuki (baseball player) and Ken Watanabe (actor).


Those are some particular masculine examples. I totally get where you are coming from - nothing hotter to me than a tall Asian with facial hair.


Hmmm haven't seen any of those around, and we are surrounded by Asians.


Yes, they are unfortunately rare.
I got one, though


Lucky girl
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 20:34     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
I'm American born Pakistani, and I actually do find Pakistani men very attractive and I am most attracted to them. My DH is Arab and hot but I always thought that tall and dark men were very handsome!

I don't find white men generally people I'm attracted to or men of other races. However if a man is uber masculine then irrespective of race he's attractive!
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 20:10     Subject: Re:Are you attracted to men of other races?
I married a handsome Asian guy - very tall, darker skin and masculine, while I'm Caucasian. Our bi-racial child is gorgeous. I've known my DH for so long, I never think of our differences.

I've dated an Egyptian (super HOT), but mostly Caucasians. It just so happened that my DH and I were friends for years before we became romantically involved, I wasn't attracted to him initially. I now find some Asians attractive.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 19:55     Subject: Re:Are you attracted to men of other races?
Anonymous wrote:Wow a lot of you don't find Asian men attractive, neither do I honestly. Wonder if it is because they don't seem very masculine.


Just saw a super hot Asian man running in Rock Creek by the boat house. Very attractive.

I am married to a bi-racial man who is very very handsome (but a pain in the butt too now that we've been married for 15 years!). Back in the day, I was attracted to a variety of ethnicities/races.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 19:51     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. I'm blonde blue eyes and only attracted to Caucasians. I don't care if I get flamed, but I want my kids to look like me (Scandinavian descent) and only dated people who wouldn't have super dominant genes. I'm not racist and have no problem with anyone daring whoever they want. For me it was just a preference.


Does anyone else find it weird to be thinking of what your kid will look like before you go on a date with someone?? Even weirder that you want them to only look like yourself?



Just personal preference, I think. I'm Asian, DH is white. Our kids our *gorgeous*, if I do say so myself They don't exactly like either of us. They are a combo, and IMO, as kids should be.

I agree with the other poster: it's about bone structure, height, build, the way they carry themselves. Having stated this, most of the men I've met that I've been physically attracted to are mixed white with another race or full white.


PP here.. wow so many typos... should read " Our kids are *gorgeous*, if I do say so myself They don't exactly look like either of us".
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 19:50     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. I'm blonde blue eyes and only attracted to Caucasians. I don't care if I get flamed, but I want my kids to look like me (Scandinavian descent) and only dated people who wouldn't have super dominant genes. I'm not racist and have no problem with anyone daring whoever they want. For me it was just a preference.


Does anyone else find it weird to be thinking of what your kid will look like before you go on a date with someone?? Even weirder that you want them to only look like yourself?



Just personal preference, I think. I'm Asian, DH is white. Our kids our *gorgeous*, if I do say so myself They don't exactly like either of us. They are a combo, and IMO, as kids should be.

I agree with the other poster: it's about bone structure, height, build, the way they carry themselves. Having stated this, most of the men I've met that I've been physically attracted to are mixed white with another race or full white.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 19:43     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
I'm white and most attracted to white and black men. Some East Asians as well but not generally as a whole. Unfortunately, after a very serious and bad experience with a darker skinned Latino, I am very turned off by them.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2014 19:41     Subject: Are you attracted to men of other races?
White woman. Married to a white guy but have dated one black man in my past. I find some Indian men attractive (not the tech nerds around here though), some black men attractive, but almost never Asian or Latino men. I do like some Arab men but again, a specific looking kind of Arab man.