Anonymous wrote:my dh had shoulder surgery in december, i heard the chimes.
Anonymous wrote:I disagree. I like the chime. I like knowing that a new life has been born. Maybe even to someone who struggled through infertility.
If they rang a bell for finishing cancer treatment, and you had cancer, would you begrudge them that? I think you are allowing infertility to color too much of your world. Let people have their baby chime.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sibley still has the baby chime (or at least they did when I delivered my stillborn girl in June). I had a bunch of bad experiences there during the delivery and I wrote to the patient advocate to complain.
I'm so sorry this happened to you.
Anonymous wrote:Sibley still has the baby chime (or at least they did when I delivered my stillborn girl in June). I had a bunch of bad experiences there during the delivery and I wrote to the patient advocate to complain.

Anonymous wrote:I delivered a stillborn baby at Sibley as well.
I generally found them to be not particular sensitive to the situation. I understand that there was nowhere to put me except the L&D rooms with women delivering live babies but they did many insensitive things such as leaving the monitor on in my room so that we could see the woman in the next room's contractions and fetal heartbeat, putting me in a room where you could hear the woman next to me in labor, the nurse handing me the forms to fill out for a birth certificate, autopsy, and disposition of remains without a word of explanation while I was in labor, no postpartum advice, and not a single visit by or offer of a social worker, counselor, or other support type person.
As traumatic as that was, if I had spent my stay there listening to that chime over and over again, it would have completely put me over the edge.
Anonymous wrote:I delivered a stillborn baby at Sibley as well.
I generally found them to be not particular sensitive to the situation. I understand that there was nowhere to put me except the L&D rooms with women delivering live babies but they did many insensitive things such as leaving the monitor on in my room so that we could see the woman in the next room's contractions and fetal heartbeat, putting me in a room where you could hear the woman next to me in labor, the nurse handing me the forms to fill out for a birth certificate, autopsy, and disposition of remains without a word of explanation while I was in labor, no postpartum advice, and not a single visit by or offer of a social worker, counselor, or other support type person.
As traumatic as that was, if I had spent my stay there listening to that chime over and over again, it would have completely put me over the edge.