Anonymous wrote:I am a people pleaser to the max.

I am always trying to go above and beyond to get people to like me...Sometimes even my own friends.

I feel like if I am just "me" that is not enough, I have to do something extra that no one else does to make me stand out so people will take notice and want to be around me.

It gets so exhausting always trying to please everyone. Saying yes to everyone and everything.....

Oh no! Have you always been this way? I am asking because my DD is the same way, and I want to intercept it while DD is young. DH can be this way, too. I, OTOH......

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Anonymous wrote:Men.

+1 I love sex.

What do u love about it? Without being graphic...

It makes me feel alive.

Another poster mentioned being invisible. Well, having sex gives me the exact opposite of that feeling. Plus I love it that I can reduce a man to a puddle of desire. When he can't even think straight because he can only think of me. It's exhilarating. It makes me feel powerful.

Anonymous wrote:I can let people get under my skin. One friends keeps giving me snarky comments about where I live (I think she's into this DCUM) and I avoid debating with her (pointless) so I suck it up. I know I shouldn't.

Someone I know is going to think I posted ^^^, but I didn't. funny.

18:20 here again, okay, now at the 4th page, I'm seeing more posts about things that are actually issues of character. So perhaps I jumped to conclusion.

The chicken and sugar posts just struck me as odd things to list as character flaws.

I'm sorry, but I think it's kind of sad that when asked about "character flaws," women on DCUM mention eating fast food or liking sugar. Those things aren't character flaws.

It's kind of a shame that eating has become so associated with morality and character. It's just eating. If you like certain foods, you like them. It's not a moral failing to like fried chicken and eat it once a week.

And do all of the people listing food as their character flaw really think that is their biggest moral failing?

Lazy and a pro at procrastination.

I don't give or receive love easily. I feel invisible most of the time.

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Anonymous wrote:Men.

+1 I love sex.

What do u love about it? Without being graphic...

Anonymous wrote:I can carry a grudge. It doesn't happen often but if I write someone off they are dead to me for life. I don't know if that's a character flaw or a defense mechanism. Typically, I'm very patient and forgiving but twice I swore never to speak to the person again. I could look right through them as though they didn't exist.

I'm a similar way. Most of the time I'm extremely patient and will look past plenty of things. But sometimes I think this can come off as "weak" to some people, who will take advantage to a level that is deliberate and perhaps manipulative. I've known two people like this, and after repeated issues, I've permanently distanced myself from them. I completely shut them off. Couldn't give a two shits anymore, at all, ever. Also not sure if a "flaw" or defense mechanism, but I totally get where you're coming from pp.

Anonymous wrote:Men.

+1 I love sex.

Men.

I get bored very easily.

I can carry a grudge. It doesn't happen often but if I write someone off they are dead to me for life. I don't know if that's a character flaw or a defense mechanism. Typically, I'm very patient and forgiving but twice I swore never to speak to the person again. I could look right through them as though they didn't exist.