DW here. We haven't had sex since Wednesday (three days ago). When I asked DH if sex might be on the weekend's plan, he literally rolled his eyes and said, "Normal women wouldn't want it again so soon." Not really a rejection, but is it any wonder my eye wanders? I'd LOVE a guy who was all over me. I'd really like sex 5 times a week.

I'm married and if I'm not in the mood (rarely), I just tell him "no" or "not tonight." Sometimes I am in the mood, but I know our youngest will wake up soon and ruin it, so I tell him that. He just says 'ok' and takes care of it himself.

Once or twice it has been because I have a massive headache, and told him so. But there are times when I've had a mild headache and we did it because I wanted to.

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Anonymous wrote:My GF and I have been dating for almost two years and she is by far the one with the higher sex drive. She'd probably have sex every day if she could (we don't live together) while I am happy with once a week. We used to have sex a lot more when we started dating, of course, but the flame has kind of died down. a great woman, and I am still attracted to her, but it's just not like it used to be.

I do feel bad when I reject her (I never though as a younger man in my early/mid 20s I'd actually reject a woman's advances for sex), but I try to initiate on other occasions.
How old are you?

20s…shocking, right?

My DH is 38, and has been fucking the same woman (me) for 16 years. DAILY that man molests me. I cannot believe that he has the same drive today as the day that I met him.

Does it make you feel good that you still get his engine that revved up? Or do you wish he'd leave you the fuck alone already? (Or, most likely, a little of both?)

It definitely makes me feel good. And when I get dressed up or parade around the bedroom in some sexy lingerie, he goes nuts, literally gets that wild man look in his eyes. For that sake, I have to tone it down, because the memory of it in his min will keep sex on his brain for days straight. On the other hand, it is tough sometimes and I wish we could sometimes hug and cuddle without him pressing his hard dick into me. It puts a lot of pressure on me when I simply want to be intimate without sex. For awhile I avoided any affection. He got butt hurt and I told him that it was because he drove me away being such a sex maniac, so he has been working hard on being affectionate without being sexual.

However, I'd rather my DH be like this than have medium to low interest in me. He for sure keeps me feeling sexy and that is important to most women.

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Anonymous wrote:My GF and I have been dating for almost two years and she is by far the one with the higher sex drive. She'd probably have sex every day if she could (we don't live together) while I am happy with once a week. We used to have sex a lot more when we started dating, of course, but the flame has kind of died down. a great woman, and I am still attracted to her, but it's just not like it used to be.

I do feel bad when I reject her (I never though as a younger man in my early/mid 20s I'd actually reject a woman's advances for sex), but I try to initiate on other occasions.
How old are you?

20s…shocking, right?

My DH is 38, and has been fucking the same woman (me) for 16 years. DAILY that man molests me. I cannot believe that he has the same drive today as the day that I met him.

Does it make you feel good that you still get his engine that revved up? Or do you wish he'd leave you the fuck alone already? (Or, most likely, a little of both?)

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Anonymous wrote:My GF and I have been dating for almost two years and she is by far the one with the higher sex drive. She'd probably have sex every day if she could (we don't live together) while I am happy with once a week. We used to have sex a lot more when we started dating, of course, but the flame has kind of died down. I do feel bad when I reject her (I never though as a younger man in my early/mid 20s I'd actually reject a woman's advances for sex), but I try to initiate on other occasions. She's a great woman, and I am still attracted to her, but it's just not like it used to be.

This is a disaster in the making. You need to go find a woman with a low drive (there are plenty out there). You probably should get your testosterone checked too. It is not at all normal for a man in his 20s to have a low drive. Having Low T is not just about sex, but can impact your health in many other detrimental ways.

If you are in your 20s and only two years into a relationship where you're not yet living together and have no kids, then this is not a sustainable situation for your GF.

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Anonymous wrote:My GF and I have been dating for almost two years and she is by far the one with the higher sex drive. She'd probably have sex every day if she could (we don't live together) while I am happy with once a week. We used to have sex a lot more when we started dating, of course, but the flame has kind of died down. a great woman, and I am still attracted to her, but it's just not like it used to be.

I do feel bad when I reject her (I never though as a younger man in my early/mid 20s I'd actually reject a woman's advances for sex), but I try to initiate on other occasions.
How old are you?

20s…shocking, right?

My DH is 38, and has been fucking the same woman (me) for 16 years. DAILY that man molests me. I cannot believe that he has the same drive today as the day that I met him.

Anonymous wrote:My GF and I have been dating for almost two years and she is by far the one with the higher sex drive. She'd probably have sex every day if she could (we don't live together) while I am happy with once a week. We used to have sex a lot more when we started dating, of course, but the flame has kind of died down. I do feel bad when I reject her (I never though as a younger man in my early/mid 20s I'd actually reject a woman's advances for sex), but I try to initiate on other occasions. She's a great woman, and I am still attracted to her, but it's just not like it used to be.

This is a disaster in the making. You need to go find a woman with a low drive (there are plenty out there). You probably should get your testosterone checked too. It is not at all normal for a man in his 20s to have a low drive. Having Low T is not just about sex, but can impact your health in many other detrimental ways.

Anonymous wrote:My GF and I have been dating for almost two years and she is by far the one with the higher sex drive. She'd probably have sex every day if she could (we don't live together) while I am happy with once a week. We used to have sex a lot more when we started dating, of course, but the flame has kind of died down. I do feel bad when I reject her (I never though as a younger man in my early/mid 20s I'd actually reject a woman's advances for sex), but I try to initiate on other occasions. She's a great woman, and I am still attracted to her, but it's just not like it used to be.

How old are you?