OP, I think your age difference is not that significant. Like someone said earlier, 22 and 45 - well, that's an entire generation, but 33 and 45?

Anonymous wrote:so this is basically just your brag thread?

Hello. This is basically my brag thread?--umm...no. I've never had a relationship with a woman 12 years *younger* than myself.
So, I was wondering what people's thoughts might be on my girlfriend in particular, and on younger women in general about attitudes, motivations, dynamics and so on in such a relationship.

Perhaps secondarily too, experiences and thoughts on such relationships with different races and cultures, as she is Mexican, and I'm white.

Centurion

so this is basically just your brag thread?

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Anonymous wrote:Are you rich?

Lol! No, I'm certainly not rich. I have quite modest finances. I was married once, and I've been divorced for several years now. While I'm past the marriage and divorce emotionally and so on, honestly I'm still recovering financially, to be honest.

To my chagrin, my girlfriend currently makes more than I do.

Centurion

That is a great sign. I was afraid she was a gold digger.

Why does she love you? Are you nice? Caring? Considerate of her feelings? Funny?

Using the term "slut" reflects poorly on you. It shows your lack of respect for women in general. That's not sexy.

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Anonymous wrote:She is done having wild crazy sex with all those boys (ie being a slut) and she is ready to settle down with your old ass.

You being willing to accept her after she fucked all those other guys makes you her perfect little stability beta.

Sto0 being a judgmental little bitch. If she's single, she can fuck as many guys as she wants. I'm sure you're not a little choir boy. ....or are you being a dick because you can't get laid? Sucks to suck.

Spoken like a true slut.

She can fuck as many guys as she wants, doesn't stop her from becoming a slut.

Awww, assault me personally - call me a bitch...say I can't get laid....hahah ouch

Anonymous wrote:She is done having wild crazy sex with all those boys (ie being a slut) and she is ready to settle down with your old ass.

You being willing to accept her after she fucked all those other guys makes you her perfect little stability beta.

Sto0 being a judgmental little bitch. If she's single, she can fuck as many guys as she wants. I'm sure you're not a little choir boy. ....or are you being a dick because you can't get laid? Sucks to suck.

Not trying to be snarky, but you are kind of a step up for her, no?

Also, is she a legal citizen or is someone looking for citizenship?

Don't rule it out.

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Anonymous wrote:She doesn't find you objectively attractive. If she's significantly younger and hotter than you, she's either after money or dominating you. Truth.

Or, she's crazy. She sounds smothering to me. As if she had some bad relationships and now you are her Madonna.

My bet is on crazy. Post back in 1-3 years.

I've noticed some Latinas get like this when they're in "relationship mode."

OTOH, she might be to hold it back until she has the kids.

Hmmm...what is "relationship mode" for Latinas? Interesting.

Centurion

Anonymous wrote:You're 45 and you divorced after a 20-year marriage? How long ago did you divorce?

Yeah, divorced 6 years ago, in 2008.

Centurion

This thread seems familiar. ....like a repost from earlier this year...

You're 45 and you divorced after a 20-year marriage? How long ago did you divorce?

Anonymous wrote:I sense a lot of anger, PP. Seek therapy.

I'm single in my 30s. I've always gone for older men and women. They're more mature and better in bed. Twice I've tried to date someone younger. Both were a disaster.

Me, angry? No, not now. I was angry at the time of my separation and divorce, but not now. I was also noting common attitudes of many men jaded after a divorce. I'm past my divorce, and have moved on.

Centurion

I sense a lot of anger, PP. Seek therapy.

I'm single in my 30s. I've always gone for older men and women. They're more mature and better in bed. Twice I've tried to date someone younger. Both were a disaster.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm 36 and I've always looked for dependability maturity and seriousness. There are all kinds of women out there but I would guess that the single women in their 30s not looking for the above are the very small minority.

Adding to this: because even those women who used to fall for irresponsible bad boy types start realizing mature and serious guys make much better fathers. 30s is the time we start putting more weight on spouses as fathers on top of being husbands.

+1

Translation: fun sex is a treat younger, attractive women have with douchebags. Beta schlubs get rewarded later on with drip fed sex lives and years of providing those women with resources. Chumps. If she didn't want to have sex with you then; why give her a joint bank account now?