Anonymous wrote:Wow there are some super bitter men on here. Its been three weeks people calm down. She isn't saying she will never have sex again she'sjust ooverwhelmed.

How many sexless marriages do you see on these boards? A common theme is that the sex went away after a baby was born. I agree that 3 weeks isn't anything to panic about. But couples need to make sure they focus on sex as a priority, otherwise there is a non-trivial chance it won't come back.

my sympathies, op. i don't even have children and i don't want to be touched beyond maybe a hug right now and haven't for sometime. and i don't understand why. it makes me feel really guilty, and i look at him knowing i should just suck it up and do it, but i just really don't want to.