Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: I'd say splitting cooking 50/50 is the default in most families I know unless there are circumstances that prevent it--e.g. one spouse consistently works late, one spouse hates cooking or is an awful cook. (Actually, I really know very few people who hate cooking, and fewer still where there is a mixed cook/non-cook marriage. Most people I know who like to cook end up married to other people who like to cook.)
What alternate universe are you from?

Aside from my DH, I don't know any men who cook regularly. I know plenty of whiny, martyred wives though!