Anonymous wrote:He was using it as a telescope.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DH is an idiot
Why? It is reasonable to think it might be drug paraphernalia. both parents being drug naive and not knowing a lot about what what drug it might be used for doesn't make him an idiot. I really hate this trend of putting men down and name calling them for no reason.
I think PP said that because OP's husband thinks it is related to smoking cocaine, whereas pot seems to be the obvious likelihood. It just shows his naivety when it comes to drugs. OP, you do need to talk to your son, but I suggest you and your husband to some reading up online and other resources first. Since you both have zero experience with drugs, you want to make sure you handle this well. I graduated high school in 2004 so I like to think I'm not THAT old. I think one of the worst things parents can do is the whole "drugs will ruin your future, drugs will turn you into a bad person" type of speech. There were so many people I went to high school with that smoked pot and were star athletes and students so that entire conversation will go in one ear and ear out the other.
But yeah, unless it is a hole that looks like it appeared from a breakage, he is likely using this to smoke pot.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All I know is that the "safe experimenters" ended up as total fuckups.
Not true. Many of my friends were safe experimenters, and they are all doing very well now in their respective fields.
I was an UNSAFE experimenter and I still graduated college and went to law school. I quit when I was 24, and I am currently a successful lawyer, mom and wife.
You only know about the fuck-ups, because the people who don't have problems can't talk about their drug use. They could lose a job or get arrested.
Anonymous wrote:gravity bong!
way to go young fella.
look within 10 years, he'll probably have the ability to buy legal pot and legal edibles and there'll be nothing you can do about it then.
Anonymous wrote:Once my mother found a tic tac in one of my pockets and assumed it was some sort of drug and went into her classic devastated diva "You know what you did!!" silent treatment mode- of course this was the night of my school awards where I got all kinds of accolades for getting high grades and whatnot.
So I don't think OP and her DH are nearly as naive or incompetent as they could be!

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All I know is that the "safe experimenters" ended up as total fuckups.
Not true. Many of my friends were safe experimenters, and they are all doing very well now in their respective fields.
Anonymous wrote:Gravity bong. Put tin foil on the top. Poke some holes in it with a needle. Put the weed on the tin foil and submerge the bottle in water. When it's full, cover the hole with your finger. Light the weed. Let your finger off the hole so water escapes from the bottle and the smoke fills it. When the bottle is full of smoke remove the tinfoil and put your mouth over the bottle to suck the smoke it.
It will get your very very fucked up.
Anonymous wrote:sounds more like an imitation bong for pot rather than smoking cocaine. I knew people used soda cans when I was in high school.